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Yes, as I said elsewhere there are no guarantees. Every situation is different, and you hav to use your judgment. But we have a damned good idea of the odds. And the odds for so-called "passive resistance" are pathetic. The chance that they will work is worse than doing nothing. Fleeing, fighting and assertive verbal…

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I already did here:

The rapist is the one who is responsible for the crime, always and without exception.

As a matter of fact, I can.

"Rape or death"? You keep saying this, but you have nothing even resembling evidence. As I've said, we have forty years worth of it. Cross-disciplinary. Well-researched. Multiple independent sources.

In essence, they are telling you to be a good little victim and play right into the rapist's script which includes some meaningless struggling and lots of pants-wetting terror.

And there are even more instances where doing nothing will get you raped, robbed and killed in no particular order. The "advice" they give here pretty much guarantees the rape will succeed.

I'll tell you what's offensive about it. We have a damned good idea of what works and what doesn't. This stuff doesn't work. We know what does. Most of the advice here actually increases your chances of being raped.

It means you bat your eyes and ask him if he'll please kiss you first.

Forty. Fucking. Years.

Cute frog. Why does it back up when it croaks?

As a proud member of the Anuran-American community I am appalled at your ranaphobia and bufonophobia. We need more amphibian-positive images and less of your warm-blooded bigotry

If I had pulled that kind of move on my wife she would have said "No," even if she were planning on marrying me. That sort of coercive pressure and forced passivity would disqualify a potential spouse in her eyes. Can't say as how I disagree.

It's not too late to get vaccinated. Do it now. Thanks to the AHCA your insurance will cover it. I had whooping cough. It was the worst hundred days of my life, and I'd infinitely rather have whooping cough than polio, diphtheria, tetanus or adult mumps

It's not a difficult issue.

At this point - married *mumble* *mumble* years without incident I'm guessing the odds for being struck by lightning are higher

I am so glad to be in a boring, conventional monogamous marriage. None of this affects me directly.

So very much this