what you seem to be missing is that as a man he automatically owns her and therefore her withholding any part of herself is just not acceptable. She needs to relax and stop being so frigid and start caring about what he thinks about her, it’s just professional (as a woman).

Yeah, he’s not qualified to say what you need to do as an actor(especially to an actor as experienced and awarded as her) he can of course say what he wants from an actor but this was just him not liking Keira and making reasons for it, I genuinely don’t think he even realises. Thank god she’s white else we would have…

I credit this book with the reason I have avoided further assaults. I genuinely am still loaning it out to this day, ten years later. Cannot recommend enough.

Cannot star this enough. For someone who had spent their entire life trying not to be rude or upset people as much as possible, I credit this book as the reason I avoided further assaults.

I read it when I was like 12 and I honestly cried so many times with joy at someone making so much sense, I had never seen things like this written down before and I kept running in to my mum (who had told me to read it) and saying “did you read this bit?!?!” and she’d just nod and we’d talk about it. It may not be as…

My mum always said that to me and my siblings, if you get lost find a mummy! :) At the time it just seemed to make sense but now looking back it’s so much safer than going up to someone in uniform or who’s security just because they’re in charge. (Anecdotally all the security guards I know personally are not people I…

Anecdotally performance anxiety was linked in my reading to killing women, so I guess it could be a motivator for some rape/abuse too. But rape wise I think its wrong to think of it in terms of sex. It’s really much much much more about power (similar to performance anxiety killing of women, which could be seen as…

Be fair!! Who has Johnny Depp got to support him through this?! He’s just a little old man who no one knows/loves. Poor, poor Johnny if only he had money or fame or power or something. What he needs is more famous people to tell all their followers that they’re not saying they dont believe Amber Heard -they’re just…

and then gets this...

RAGE. I swear I just stayed out of the comments on this whole saga until this update because I was getting so mad at all the judgement. (And were they even together while he was married?!)

Euugh, I fucking know!! Unbelievable. I have to say I know it was probably a quick post but I’m not a massive fan of Jez posting that paragraph here, especially when its only 1 of 2. They don’t mention other things like the video or the picture of the police card (or the police being involved at all) and, I don’t…

Education for the win! :)

BUT. Nick sounds so much more fun to hang out with, way more self aware. Did you catch his AMA? :)

Is it? Shit. I clearly need to go back to one of those “the sheep goes baa” toys :/ Not complaining, kids book are the best!!

Yeah my friend had this,and claimed it was “just like sushi”(til they tried it!)They didn’t die, so thats...good. I have to say I don’t think I ever could/would but my dad’s girlfriend grew up on a farm in Poland in quite bad poverty and I swear she has an iron stomach. She can eat ANYTHING. Literally anything and not…

yeah! Haha, I was gunna find an exact link but then...I just thought nah, just send a link to the site. It’s ALL skulls. (But you beat me to it!!) :)

Eugggggh, I’m so sorry you were dealt that shit. This reminds me of when I started wearing formal attire (i.e proper suit type trousers and blouses sort of stuff) to stop one of my teachers commenting on all my clothes(mainly dresses and leggings) that he deemed “pretty”, “lovely”, “sultry”, “seductive”, “stylish”and,…

are you..are you me? hahaa. I’ve legit had that exact excuse! That it must be me “ bouncy” walking when I questioned why my clothing was always commented on with such an emphasis on it being revealing even though it wasn’t.( I just have big boobs and I wear dresses- but I never had my legs uncovered or wore short…

“It’s basically office appropriate pajamas” <3 <3 <3

Yeah, I have to say that was my reading too. That complete obsession of “totally not” obsessing about it, amongst other things. Euuugh, especially at this part under that sexual abuse checklist;