He was actively working to make sure I didn’t enjoy myself, and when I made an effort to, my performance was critiqued....Turns out he actually did enjoy the sex, but just didn’t want me to.

Or those women who are unfairly judged or feel that they would be judged by those they would have sex with can swing it my way. It boggles the mind that men would be bothered by something like their partners sexual prowess. It’s moments like this that I don't feel like an adult.

Many many years ago I brought some fella back to my room and sucked him off. He was blown away (pun intended) and was quite lovely until I said “yes, I enjoyed it too”. At which point he freaked the fuck out. “You... you LIKE doing that to men? Don’t you worry you might catch something? Jesus...” and fled, doing his…

right? Like my point has always been, who the fuck cares about the other dudes? I passed on them, moved on from them, to YOU for a reason. Take that as a high ass compliment.

tbh it really is an issue I am so frustrated by. I love my husband, but he has a serious problem with the fact that I have a sexual history that far outpaces his own. Not my fault and not something I will be ashamed of. We’ve had the fight many times, I won’t shove my past in his face but I won’t hide it either and it…

I never got this dude memo, I don’t get why other guys are so eager to sleep with virgins. First timers sex is usually awkward as hell and awful.

That guy was an insecure douchecanoe

Yay for cool Dads! My mom told me somewhat jokingly “don’t put out until the money’s on the dresser” meaning make sure I was getting what I wanted out of the relationship before giving him what he wanted :)

I mean honestly, unless it was something like, “I used to date a neo-Nazi. He’s in prison now. Man, I miss that guy...” I don’t see why who you’ve been with before really matters all that much.

It’s a double standard? We expect our boyfriends to have slept with a considerable number of women because we are taught that it is the norm and completely acceptable.

I used to actively seek out slutty guys, on the theory that they would know enough about real sex not to porno jackhammer me or be squeamish about oral.

My exboyfriend had a chip on his shoulder because I wasn’t a virgin

Why does he feel so insecure with his own skills that he has to be all passive aggresive about guys I’ve been with

I’m glad he’s your ex.

I thought everything was a penis competition when you have one?

You’re normal, some people aren’t and assume there must be a “reason” a person is skillful in the bedroom.

Yeah I’ve been told I have “skills”, sure it’s a compliment but there’s an assumption that you must have had a whole lot of experience to have such great skills... SMH.

Be more like GG Allin!

Welcome to the double bind, kid :P

Like, if you s—k d—k too good the first time, guys will be like, ‘Mmm I can’t make a wife of her because she s—ks d—k too good