'boring sex atop a rickety pedestal' : you win.

It's the NO books houses that bug me the most.

As a corollary to the manifesto thing, I think it's important to align outside with inside. When faced with a devastating life change at 35, I decided it was time to LOOK like who I wanted to be. I made the choice to devote myself professionally to my art craft, and changed my physical appearance to make it clear I…

It's the lack of appropriate tools, the speculum specifically. Even the biggest ones sometimes are not long or strong enough to deal with the pelvic pressure. It has to hold the tunnel open, and sometimes it can not. So, no procedure. One more way the medical field discriminates against large women: no blood…

Hi Katia:

I'd like to add here that the ahh bra is a damned lie, and expensive. Shop your shirt size, my white fanny. If only its commercials were true, what a miracle of bras it would be.

Love it! I also love the Maori hand piece in the header pic-who is that?

I have a bee tattoo on my hand, and bees often cruise it. They always seem bummed to realize it's just a picture.

Hey, we are just a couple of weirdos, what do we know about anything?

Being spousal for so long, we got into some bad habits like withdrawal and silence, so we are working on doing things in a different way. We've gone through some heavy shit recently, and this method has had benefit for us.

No, really-we've been trying to operate counterintuitively when in the throes of spousal distress, and it has totally been working. Hate? Go in for the hug, with the intent of blowjobs or naked baby oil dancing. It seems to get the endorphins running in the other direction. Side note, I despise goop and agree that…

The tiny white town I grew up in held prom at a literally roach infested double wide trailer of a VFW hall. Definitely NOT the highlight of my skool daze. Later, after moving to a city and making some cool friends, one we called the Sparkle Queen held a misfit prom at her home. It was really great, a celebration of…

DHC (japan-based) has a lovely and relatively inexpensive line based around virgin olive oil-not quite the stuff one eats. I've had great results-combi skin in a dry climate, and you can get free samples or minis to try it out before you commit to the big bottle. awesome stuff.

It's a bad year for the sea lions. All the beaches are littered with ailing babies. Something has gone terribly wrong in the sea.

yep, and it still is.

you might try rotating through your "works" pile, maybe every 3 days or so, and a product called "calms-forte" can be found at health food type stores. good luck!

eight oranges. true story.

Tell the story of your family to each other, how everyone came to be together. Kids love stories, and what better story than one about you? Do stuff together, talk to each other. One thing I'm so glad to have is a little letter about some of the qualities I wanted our family to manifest. Years later, it is pretty…

My mechanically inclined spouse is famous for having dismantled 3 cribs and a trike before the age of 1. Woulda been out of this thing and sliding down the drainpipe in a MacGuyver minute.

These poor young folks need to be encouraged to broaden their porn experience. The rainbow of flavor is all around, just turn your head a little. Labia, all sorts!