And the respectability politics that he hustled to the black community are part of the cloak he used to disguise his rapist nature. His disguise and real self are tainted from his "clean lifestyle". Fuck that shit.

Because men of all nations and all colors don't disagree on their dreams?? Because women shouldn't talk? Shut and by the way take them shoes off gal! You're praignit!!

Amen child amen to that!! The thirst is real, no lie. Am a huge Sherlock fan. BUT!!!! I've been having this problem that I could not define for the past five years.....WHY do I dislike everything about his Hollywood movies, including him??? Because this, "..I just hate his subtly thirsty hollywood ways..." Straight up…

I'm not a showbiz person but I can say that I sorta, kinda know what these means....in the sense that the Monique who performed in Precious, who was on Comic View pre-BET sellout, even Monique of her little talk show on BET which was really kinda good is a little too real. Monique is that black woman who doesn't shave…

After my mother divorced my father and she started dating again her worst nightmare was that she'd get involved with a man who would sexually abuse me. Because it's so common for depraved men to target women with young daughters. And I just couldn't understand why she would regularly quiz me once he started living…

The song was tired. But Madonna as an icon is huge. I'd like to see her re=invent herself for her present incarnation like she's always managed to do to retain relevance. She isn't Miley or any of the poptarts but they learned from her. I just think that Madonna possesses something more than the average pop tart:…

Um nope you must be responding to another post, perhaps? My post was about how I love Madonna her body and her sexuality. I wasn't criticizing her for being "old" either. Sooo..um...yeah there was no hate here. Maybe next time! I think you either misunderstood me or meant to take down someone else

I enjoy watching Madonna more so now that I ever did when I was 5 years old in MTV's first year on the air. The fact that she is a "mature" women next to all the poptarts is fascinating not so much because of her age but her history, drive, ambition and fantastic body all are amazing. But for a woman who's entire…

I'll just leave this right here....

Meh perhaps for those who have enough personal security and comfort and who have long outgrown being moved by the fumbling of others in interpersonal interactions. Otherwise it's a helpful guide for Making Nice. I mean you're talking to a former debutante here so I'm constitutionally incapable of dismissing etiquette…

I kept thinking of Peaches Geldof as well. I know in my life my mother has been not just the greatest friend, even when I couldn't bear to be around her because New York City was calling and I just had to go, still she remained as involved in my life as of I was still in the next room. For young women who do have…

I dig Mark's dirtbag. Also enjoyed Kara's a lot as well.

I didn't mean to sound as if I was correcting or disagreeing. I was just riffing :)

It's not a question of not being "open" about sexuality, I think. I was very old (translation in my 30s) before I ever became sexually/romantically attracted to another woman. Maybe I'll never meet another woman that I'll ever have that with. I don't know. But it's not incorrect or untrue to say that I have lived as a…

I think she's making the definition of pan in order to explicitly state that not everyone is motivated this way, and for etiquette's sake if other forms of protocol are too much for you don't go around propositioning every individual who identifies this way.

This thing "I don't believe in bisexuality" ...like what the fuck?!?!? Maybe I don't "believe" that the there are multiple types of fish and non-fish as well in the sea but that doesn't mean they don't exist. Anytime I hear anyone with that shit they get a black mark on the teacher's grade ledger in my head... Just…

In truth, I'm pretty picky about who I choose to bed and who I choose to love—pickier than many of my friends regardless of orientation. While sex and gender presentation are not one of them, many factors limit who I will find attractive.... I need someone who can match my wit blow for blow, who gets as teary as I do…

Honestly right now I'm feeling super rage-y for Cissy Houston as well as every single other member of that family. All the fussing and fighting, drugs, arguments, threats to take Bobbi Kristina away blahblahblah .... It's a never ending drama cycle so this child doesn't even know the meaning of peace and quiet. How…

This. I keep thinking how this little girl ought to be in college with friends and travelling around the world. Learning about life and loving life. But I'm angry as shit with Whitney and Bobby that they gave this child so little that she feels that she literally cannot survive without the dubious influence/protection…

Do tell. But if that was his motive he has achieved it. Frankly he's murdered the child and countless other lives are endangered in the intensity of this grief as well. If the woman drops dead tomorrow or ten years from now I can still see this being the smoking gun