You are right, the author doesn’t do a very good job at explaining what went through her mind when Dave had sex with her, other than being annoyed by his odor and she is not saying that she was frightened or threatened or frozen (due to the shock) . I wish she explained more of that, but she didn’t and that’s that (on…

You don’t get it. Xyz is referring to the part there the author is saying that she did play the cat and mouse game with other men. And I suppose the question is what is the difference between those instances and the Dave story, from an outsider’s (objective) point of view and from a men’s point of view, considering…

As far as I’m concerned , breaking up with someone over sex is not petty, but that’s just me (I broke up with dudes over premature ejaculation, unsatisfactory size or “inadequate orgasm technique” if I may put it that way).

Perhaps not.

How much do you want to bet that this is not a false accusation. The woman took a sample of his sperm with her to the police, if you read the article. She found it on her chest. How charming..

I asked my sister who is a GP and she said that, in the right dose, any narcotic drug can induce a state of disconnect, of semi-consciousness in a patient, including morphine.

There is no problem if you leave her because she doesn’t want to have sex with you, but if she gives in to your “ultimatum” or whatever you want to call your explanation to her, and she has sex with you, then you are using emotional blackmail to coerce her into sex, which is rape. How would you feel if she had sex…

Really? Would you kiss that mouth that looks like a slit? By the way that mouth shape is indicative of vicious people.

You are making no sense whatsoever. What does Ottoman oppression centuries ago have to do with what’s happening today in Cologne, or with your Balkan background ? other than, of course, the fact that Balkans are one of the most racist and misogynist parts of Europe.

The idea is that our culture’s misogyny and Islamic misogyny come from the same place. I don’t see how treating them differently would help us. Feminists should not be the useful idiots for those racists and that is why they are so mad at us. Just look at the Pegida demonstrations , they are all men (the huge majority…

So your answer is yes. Well, then allow me to say you are lying when you claim you’ve been sexually assaulted. Hope you don’t mind.

I am not silencing you, woman, but the leeches I am talking about are invading the public discourse with videos like these - below are only a few videos made by the hundreds of men who largely stay silent about the tens of thousands of rapes committed annually in their countries by their own home-grown rapists, the…

I am also referring to people like you who use these atrocious assaults against women in Cologne to attack feminism - the only women’s rights movement we have.

Problem is that every time women speak about sexual assault when the perpetrator is a migrant there are thousands of racist male leeches who are against women’s rights in their everyday lives, but would take advantage of the situation to incite hatred. Those Pegida hooligans (the vast majority of them males if you…

really, so you think hundreds of women who filed complaint are lying?

There is no excuse for people who hold women responsible for their husbands’ behavior. It is just insidious misogyny to hold a woman responsible for things that are out of her control, that she could not change.

Please don’t be scared and don’t listen to the lactation pressure group. I have not been breastfed, no one in my family has been. My daughter is now 7 and she wasn’t breastfed either. She’s very healthy, smart , energetic, never had to take antibiotics, and there are years she doesn’t even get the flu that all other…

Unless the “minder” is the rapist himself. The company must be liable for any sexual assault that happens within its premises, bottom line, no matter who’s the perpetrator. It seems to me they are just trying to eschew responsibility.

And of course, like with everything happening in this vile industry, all the stipulations are for the performers who might get sexually assaulted.

And you are EileenHavingADickWhichMustSpeakForWomen?