No, that’s not fair because you could say that about literally any other human being you encounter in life.

I love this and have saved it for future use. 

You’re policing other people’s lives when you have absolutely no right to. If you’d like people to stop calling you a TERF, maybe you should take a long hard look at your explicit biases. 

“I’m a brown man and bisexual. People attack my manhood and sex life because of my race and sexual orientation. I sometimes feel like nothing I do is enough or good enough. Someone will always find a way to make me feel bad or wrong.”

Yes, all of this.

Drug use is not the same as drug abuse, that's a harmful myth to perpetuate. 

Double standards.

This is a ridiculous stance. Americans complain that people need to become educated, aware,  and change their perspective on certain topics but if/when someone does, they’re suddenly suspect? Please.

The problem isn’t ever transmen.

Yes, where I've seen it work is significant time between the breakup and when reconnection is broached. 

Also, because I learned this today - he’s been seeing the same man since early 2011, and they’re engaged to be married.

I would assume they had plenty of skeletons by association. 

Exceedingly unlikely.

I hope you are right. 

How apt. 

Right, I’m sure we can all agree that the second someone uses ‘uppity’ as an adjective for someone of mixed race there is absolutely and without any doubt a ‘racism angle’

What

Modern sokushinbutsu...?

I believe most industries cried and wailed similarly when the work week went from >60 to 40

If it wasn’t flat-out terrifying that he is this delusional and in an unwarranted position of extreme power, his version of reality would be a fascinating study.