And yet, after all that, Tom still had the ability to come along and create a rift that was (in my opinion) never fully mended.

Well what happened was that I was never attracted to him. AT ALL. He's the total opposite of my type. But I was drunk so I didn't care. I didn't even realize that I was drifting in and out of consciousness until he said that, and by then I'd already came (he did stuff to me and then wanted me to do stuff to him, he…

I think that in order to have an adult intelligent discourse about rape we need to be able to admit that there is some truth to what Stacey Dash is saying, even if it sounds like caca when it comes out of her mouth. I had this friend named Jaime, who I am no longer friends with, and it is because of shit like that…

Idk I mean, is fucking a drunk girl really rape? Are we going there? So being drunk means you can't give consent? I know I'm gonna get lambasted for this but I think that's just stupid. I had drunk sex probly more times than I've had sober sex. I even had sex with this guy who kept saying he felt like he "was…

I think the opposite is true. When a sad, lonely, friendless girl tries to be someone else (someone who, in her mind, is "better") so that she can like herself, we just think Aw that's sad. It's fucked up and can become problematic but I think, as a society, we just kinda think "Aw, poor girl." On the other hand, it'd…

Yeah I wouldn't go to a strip club with these idiots. I'm not feeling guilty about shit. I'm bi and I wanna grind on some big butts and IDGAF about any of that. And what. Fuck this woman's postmodern pseudo-intellectual queer theory feminist nonsense. Blarf. Also, I wouldn't show up to a strip club with anything less…

I'm a white girl from Queens (born and raised, holla!) and I was ALWAYS made fun of for my full lips. In elementary school, this guy used to call me "n-word lips" which I didn't really understand why that was a bad thing because my mother always told me that my full lips were beautiful and she also said that she…

I agree. I think it's kinda like the POTUS. This guy is the Obama of his restaurants so even if it's not his fault directly, unfortunately the buck stops with him.

So sick of ignorant people not getting why "how come it's okay to say problem of whiteness? if it were blackness..." White people have, for centuries, been the oppressors. It's always okay (in fact, it's good) to point out the problem with the oppressors, whether it's about other races or poverty or whatever.…

Is it just me? The man - initially - was very polite in asking this author to please tie her hair down or something because his wife couldn't see. He was very polite. And she obliged, which, considering he was polite and I assume not lying, the right thing to do. Then, it seems, the author abruptly decided to NOT keep…

I'm as white as the day is long, so I kind of feel like this is gonna sound weird coming from someone as pale as I am, but am I the only person who sees/hears about sorority nonsense and just shakes their head and goes, "White people." (I also do that while watching reruns of Friends and How I Met Your Mother). IDK…

What I'm about to say isn't going to be pretty, but it's my truth. I can't wrap my brain around this. Being bullied for having sex. I would've given anything to have that be my life. Not now, of course, that I'm 33, but at 15? I would've, even if it meant those guys would rape me. See, when I was 15 I lost my…

I love Iggy Azalea. I think she's a great rapper and I love her album. I also agree with everything she said to Azalea Banks. And the idea that Iggy is somehow taking music that belongs to black people and capitalizing off it is so ridiculous and not to mention exclusionary and rude. I'm a white girl from Queens, NY.…

I put this in terms of myself, so that I could understand it better. It's not the same, but I wanted to put it in a different perspective, one that I could relate to. I am considered morbidly obese (lost 84 lbs. this year woohoo!) and have struggled with weight my whole life. If I saw some hot chick posting pics on…

That's so funny because you just described exactly what I'm NOT into, lol. But I do like Colin. I like Michael Che better, but I like them both. And I'm glad Cecily Strong is not doing Update anymore because now she is free to do The Girl You Wish You Didn't Start A Conversation With At A Party lol.

Yeah I don't think this is an Uber problem; I think this is a cabbie problem, but local cab companies aren't international companies, so those creepy interactions don't make the news. As someone who doesn't drive, I take cabs ALL THE TIME, have for years. There was this one guy named Gene, a Russian guy, who would…

I would never do what this woman did, but to each their own. First off, I'm still fat, so there's not really a fuckable quotient with me, but that's not why I wouldn't do it. What she did probably makes her feel great, so more power to her, but it also sends the message that his ridicule had the ability to greatly…