This is great stuff. This could be a blog.

And I’m glad you’re out of yours hon, be well!

You are a genius, and thank you so much.

Yes! Regardless of the other person’s behaviour (which wasn’t, like, stellar), I now know that I can’t rebuild that trust and trying will just cause me more pain. (Especially when the other party doesn’t really seem to see what they did wrong...)

That is the best thing about the worst time in your life: if you have any kind of gumption you learn a lot and never again do you put up with shit. Boundaries. Drawn.

1.) Go to Breibart and observe for a bit. Get a feel for the landscape. The lingo. The power players.

2.) Download some Hans Zimmer scores. “Interstellar” is a good one - lots of loud pipe organs.

3.) Start by doing some mild commenting. Agree with people. Tell them they are making good points. Build a rapport with…

Oh man I’ve been there! Except my agony lasted for another 3 1/2 years after he cheated because I was unwilling to pay the full rent on my apartment. I lied to myself SO much.

And she’s pissed that Bethenny is the one to reveal it.

I appreciate that you use your negative emotions to perform a public service. Kudos.

I do not believe she was at all shocked at this. I think she was pissed that he got caught and she got called out publically/on camera. My guess is that if he learns to handle himself more discreetly she will not be that upset. I think this story was the best cover they could come up with (honestly, it would be really…

When my husband and I fight, I go listen to movie score music on my headphones while trolling people on Breibart.

Thank you. It’s okay though. It really was inevitable and I learned a lot—including a lot of things that I will never stand for again.

Yikes, sorry to hear. Breaking up is never easy, even under the best circumstances.

Six months of agony and an inevitable break up.

How did that end if you don’t mind me asking in this anonymous forum?

I’m pretty sure if Tom were to unexpectedly pass away before the nuptials, LuAnn take him to a taxidermist, prop him up at the end of the aisle, and hire a ventriloquist to say his vows. Tl;dr - There is no way she is not getting married.

That’s like when my ex cheated the day before our anniversary. When I asked him if that meant anything he shrugged, seemingly bewildered.

Y’know, I get “he screwed up” at some point in a relationship, but the night before your engagement party? Naw, son. That points to some serious issues.

Forgive him if you want, but if his first instinct is to go out and kiss another woman when you get in a fight, he is probably going to resort to that behavior in the future.

That makes me so sad, but you’re right. She needed Joe in the sea of floofy pink dresses and leopard print tights. Now she’s all alone with all the girls.