Well, I think it depends a little on your gender and orientation, but you’re fine. Creating an OKC account doesn’t obligate you to give anyone your time, but if you wouldn’t mind giving a bit of it anyway, a quick “I don’t think we’re a good fit, but good luck!” can be kind and helpful. Unless you’re talking to a…

This is a great thing and I’m so glad there’s a temporary solution, but...damn does it make me sick to think about the environmental impact of 96 single-use bottles per person per week. Couldn’t it at least be gallon jugs, especially if delivery eliminates the problem of people needing to transport water in quantities…

I live in Orlando, and it took me about five seconds yesterday to figure out the last time I felt this way: when I woke up to headlines about the Pulse shooting. Just...pure dread, and pure horror that human beings can be so ignorant and destructive.

Girl, if an allergy to shrimp left your lady parts in pain, you could have just stopped hooking up with Ol’ Tiny-Hands Trump. No one would have called you a size queen. (Here all week, try the veal)

That was my immediate question as well. I have to say, I’ve been wondering if, at 26, I’m too old to get a septum piercing, and this picture is giving me an answer: no, but I AM far too booger-y not to have that question about myself every time I look in the mirror.

Drag Race has left me unable to read an interview with Adele and not hear her voice in my head as Ginger’s Snatch Game version of her, and I’m very okay with that.

I honestly didn’t realize that I had worded that sentiment differently when I lost my comment and retyped it, what I meant to say was “designed *with them in mind*,” which is very, very different from “designed *for them*.” I really and truly do agree with you wholeheartedly, and I should have taken more time to…

I’m so sorry, I wrote “spaces not designed *with them in mind*” the first two times I tapped the wrong thing and lost my comment, I was frazzled when I typed it the third time, and there’s a vast gulf between those two phrases. All I meant was that high school gyms were built and women’s athletic competitions were…

Yeah, sounds like I agree with you on all fronts.

All very true. I think, though, that the crux of all these questions about trans women in spaces not designed for them is the difficulty of balancing the safety and comfort of both trans and cis women, and how definitions of femininity can muddy the waters.

I don’t agree with a whole lot of what TheRaven is saying, but they raised a question a couple times that I’m genuinely curious to know your answer to (apologies if you gave it and I missed it!):

Oh, I’m sure he’s feeling plenty of consternation where HE went (under the table [for these purposes, that’s a euphemism for hell])!

This is truly a hall of fame amazing story.

Fred Mwangaguhunga is both a deeply wonderful name and an exact transcription of a supervillain laugh interrupted by a cough.

Did anyone else see “the lids of my vagina” and think instantly of My Dad Wrote a Porno?

My recent viewing of Saved is definitely what helped me make that connection!

Nahh, I don’t think she’ll give a fuck

In my opinion, she looks like actress/Sarandon progeny Eva Amurri.

So true, Gregg Sulkin, children DO want attention! Glad to see that dating an underaged girl while you were a grown-ass man taught you something!

Wait, you had a car in 9th grade?? Shouldn’t the babes have been begging YOU for dates???