... people actually do that?

Yeah. That's the real area of contention is that usually when one of us is ready to go for it, the other isn't due to that same kinda difference of internal sexytimes clocks. Though a tantrum seems a bit extreme.

That's not remotely what I said. I think the idea of fooling around out of a sense of obligation to do so is ridiculous and stupid. Feel free to continue projecting whatever you want though. And then building on those (incorrect) projections to draw (false) conclusions. It's the internet, that's pretty much 1/3 of the…

ah, yeah, that'd freak me out too. :D never had to face such, but that would be pretty alarming, I imagine.

Yeah, that sounds shitty about waking up to attempted sexing. Shitty and not at all right. That said, I don't understand the issue (with the other self-servicing in bed) so long as the other party isn't being actively engaged while unconscious or after communicating a lack of interest. My big thing (personally) is I…

YES! "maintainance sex" sorry my vag is not a friggin' car, yo. And if it needs tuning up, that's what the gyno is for. People should feel comfortable enough in their relationships and with their own sexuality that they can see to their own needs if their partner is not feeling it at the moment. Not try and guilt them…

Same. Well, heads won't roll exactly, but it's irritating on the rare occasion it happens.

this is too perfect for words

That's kind of a shit response. It'd be one thing if she wasn't living with him, but she is. The fact that they're living together by definition means there's a minimum of privacy to start with, and that the response was to expect him not to feel comfortable enough to service himself in his own bed. Yes it's her bed,…

I love it, I still think it's cute. It might not be "on trend" anymore, but I don't think that means it looks bad! Love the streaks. Hell, I had them for a year back in 2010. I'd probably do it again if my hair wasn't borderline fried from bleaching it out in spring to dye it hot pink. <3

I actually like it. Sure it's not fashionable -now-, but it was THE look for a while. And you very much pull it off.

It was a grief haircut. The third time a guy had molested me, this one I was passed out during and heard about later. I cut off all the hair along both the sides of my head leaving myself with a shoulder length "mohawk" that I regretted so much that I never even showed anyone but my husband. Needless to say, it was…

Shake it Off is the BEST. And then Bedroom Hymns. Could not agree more. That woman can BELT. And she sounds so rapturously joyous when she sings, too.

I think it's a pretty great thing he did here. I'm not particularly into watching wangs (seriously, I'm generally much more attracted to women than men). It's nice to see more bilateral nonsexualized nudity though. Diversity for all, huzzah! Also, it's nice to see male nudity more often, and it's always nice to see…

And why not. Webster's and college classes have already changed the definition of apocryphal from what it was when I was growing up. UGH.

So turning a book into a movie, rather than 3 movies. And a relatively short book into a 4 hour movie, at that. Sounds like this person knew how to do something the movie studio did not: Actually fucking edit down the bloated BS filler.

Really beautifully put and I gotta agree about society piling a bunch of crap on it (like some horrible pizza of social expectations). Even the notion that it's usually going to be the 'sassy' gay guy that's the bff. My gale male bff isn't sassy, lol we are best friends because he's a huge nerd and so am I, and…

My best friend outside my husband since I was 14 years old is a gay man, and we love hanging out, that said, most of the time spent hanging out is playing Dungeons and Dragons. :D It's been the same with multiple other gay men that I've met. I mean yes, some gay men (like my uncle, for example) are much more…

I can't help but wonder that myself. I mean... I love gay guys, yes, I said it, but the only reason WHY I say that, is because I know that that's one group of people I can befriend where the guy won't break down into histrionics and start cutting himself or wind up trying to get me drunk, guilt me, etc etc etc because…

While I agree, this is something I've seen play out a few times fairly recently in different shows. Like Lost Girl, where Bo (the protagonist, a succubus) is in bed with this stranger, her roommate comes home, makes a comment about how hot the dude is, and when Bo is done, she 'tags her in' so to speak, and it shows…