This is something I'm slowly realizing. My life dream was to be married to a great guy with an amazing career and I'd just take care of him. That was it. All I wanted. And then at 30 and a failed 9 year relationship I realized that it wasn't going to happen. So I went to grad school and started doing the types of…

It's one thing if it's a shared bed in a relationship, but YOUR bed when you barely know the guy? Ruuuude.

I feel like we all have enough trauma to file a class action against Dorothy for our pain and suffering.

How about the temporary color mousse that you could smear into your hair? I had a bottle of the hot pink color explode in my ESPRIT bag one day. Good times.

No kidding, had it most of the eighties. We all looked like morons.

I went all Juliette Binoche after seeing the English Patient and cut my own hair. In a field. Very romantic. Anyway, like you I would cut off chunks that stuck out funny. I thought of it as hair sculpture. This went for most of 1996-2000 until I had to get a real job and needed a proper haircut. The hairdresser was…

He said I looked like a duckling.

I have dark black hair. Long dark black hair. But when I was a teenager I was not happy having long dark black hair. However It's hard to lighten black hair when you don't know what you are doing and silly me I thought you could bleach your hair with actual bleach. So I went to the cupboard and got the javex and…

A woman at my job has those highlights on medium brown hair, but also with the vaguely maroon color thrown in. Like this, but more faded and sans the "can I speak to a manager" haircut. It actually makes me kind of angry that this particular combination still exists.

That last story is just awful. :( :( :(

pretty sure dog did not notice at all

At my house it's more like this:

I;m Team Cat but I can appreciate a patient and nice doggy.

I like how the cat first kneaded the dog to make him soft.

Give it a rest, Wesley. We get it - Taylor is so inauthentic and fake, unlike Katy who is an artiste who expresses her authentic self through her whipped cream-shooting nipples.

The importance to not coming off as an MRA troll is realizing that the imbalance of power comes not from "women" but rather from the patriarchal stereotypes that are fed to both men and women.