Closure at the end of a relationship helps me move forward. Burying hatchets, feeling like the relationship went full circle, closing the loop on that particular narative... that's always been important for me.

If an ex did that to me I would be an emotional wreck! Whoa.

Translation: creepy steve is a big creepshot fan. Also, she deserves it because misogyny is easier than being an adult.

defensive much?

You're a sexual predator.

But don't you know: the ugly hag anti-porn feminists are the true problem here. Where did they get the stupid, crazy notion that, say, the fact that extreme porn acts (where the woman is almost always at a disadvantaged position) are increasingly passed on as default, is something to be frowned at? Any sort of opinion…

Because we don't teach it and I am willing to bet they never prepped for it either. This would be a good time to reference Ralph Ellison's Invisible Man

I don't think it's well enough understood just how terrible the vast majority of the service economy is on human dignity.

Yeah, I am also not questioning her experience. I fully believe it could be less degrading to do porn than to work at Wal Mart. But it does not in any way change how I feel about porn . . . it just reminds me of how much I also hate Wal Mart.

I know you're like the queen here and I'll probably catch on fire for arguing with you but don't presume you know how anti-porn feminists think. You think they don't know that minimum wage jobs can be demeaning? All jobs can be demeaning. Doesn't mean that everything is hunky dory with porn.

not to be churlish, but maybe if she just went to Chapel Hill, she wouldn't have to do porn to pay for school.

Uh, no, not really. I think it actually illustrates a big part of WHY I don't like porn — think through the implications of this statement in terms of the intersectionality of gender, class, and power here.

She's a College Republican.

I am silently screaming and crying, then screaming some more and I only read the headline.

I really do not understand that attitude of 'oh well, [famous person] is massively rich and being famous is part of the job, suck it up'. People like Pattinson are allowed to feel violated when they've got strangers with cameras setting up camp outside their homes; when every detail of their lives is obsessed over by…

I'll give Robert Patterson a break because he has clear contempt for the shallowness of the source material on which he built his fame.

True story - She also fucked a guy I used to date. I've never been able to look at her the same since I found that out. Also, that guy is a horrible person...took me a little while to figure that out.

I haven't really looked at Melissa Joan Hart the same way since I found out she was a Romney-supporter. She seemed like one of the least likely republicans in Hollywood.

I broke up with my ex because of porn. Before the topic ever even came up he was weirdly trying to throw me off the scent trail by bringing up other people's habits and saying he "wasn't like that" without my asking about it. He was so secretive on his computer and I suspected he was still into his ex, so when I went…