I am a little nervous about that eventuality as well. 

He invades her home, she gets to kill him. She invades his home, she gets to kill him. See how that works? That's privilege. 

Lets make a hate crimes offender registry!! 

But...but...but....she's a pretty little white girl. Everyone hug her! 

Fucking bullshit. I swear white people of the current generation need to learn one single thing: accountability. You are responsible for the things you do. Yes, even though you are white. Perhaps even especially the things you do to BIPOC. Yes, even if you felt threatened. Especially so. 

One breath at a time! 

Absolutely. And I would love to see that cover/crossover. The song was done on Drag Race a few weeks ago, which is why I have been thinking about it. I would love to see it expanded by someone with a life story like Cardi B. 

They despise Catholics as much as Muslims. 

Dear White People: you can do absolutely anything you want to in this society with immunity. The only thing you can’t do is say this one two-syllable word.

There’s an old song from the 80s by Reba Macintire called “Fancy.” It’s basically about a teenage girl who is sex trafficked by her mother. And she’s the hero of the song. If Cardi B covered it there would be so much scandal. She should do it! 

I was a little bit scandalized by the radio edit when I first heard it. To me, it’s more shocking than the explicit version. But it's only surprising because it's women taking - no more graphic than "squeeze my lemon" or "lick the lollipop."  Not far beyond stuff Lil Kim did 15 years ago. The kids will be okay.

Good for him. Self care. 

Never could. Souch more interesting than, like,  Hamilton or whatever 

I would really be mad at a partner for not letting owing how to access porn for free. 

At least Gilgamesh had beastiality and zombies in it. 

The devil tells his lies using pieces of the truth. Or something like that. 

Existing as a white person in the current ethos requires us to sacrifice some of our own humanity in order to agree to deny the humanity of others. If you point out that something’s wrong you get gaslit to no end. It’s enough to make you a little crazy. My favorite quote: It’s no measure of good mental health to be…

Anybody else have to settle for Crystal Light because your mom was on a diet? Maybe that's my middle class white mom showing 

Hang in there. So trite, I know, but sometimes we need to hear it. Not forever, just for now. 

There are so many men suffering in silence. Women do too, if course, but with the young men I know who have been victims of sexual assault if seems there is a whole new level of shame.