Stages of grief for something like this is real. I have a friend who is lesbian and she was so mad at a her mom for not immediately jumping on board when she came out. Her mother is an ass overall so there were issues there, sure. But, there is also this loss on her mother’s part as well and I had to have a long talk…

Was she referring to Ora in the gif? Also, ANTI WAS ROBBED!!!!!

I know three women who stayed with partners through and post-transition. One couple is about to call it quits 20 years later, because the kids are grown, and the other two seem permanent (also 20-25 years in), but the amount of pain the non-transitioning partner went through is stunning. It wasn’t pain like a hump to…

I want to say this is like how I blame my husband for my being heavier since we got married. He brings home the ice cream, but I’m the idiot who makes the decision to eat it.

At some point, you have to admit you have some agency.

It is so hard. My ex started transitioning when we were together and there’s so much more to supporting someone through that than just “I’m a different gender now.” Her transition is not what ended our relationship but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t contribute a little.

Oh, fuck Caitlyn Jenner. You know what I’m hearing? Excuses. Caitlyn had aaallllll the resources, especially when compared to the transpeople I know in real life, and if she wanted a different life that is on HER. Kris is a disgusting piece of shit human, but this still isn’t her personal fault, and I would like to…

I’m not team Kris or anything, but it would take a genuinely special person to truly support your spouse through a gender transition. To do so while also an international “brand” that necessitates your laundry being on television, even if that were a life you had chosen makes it more complicated. Add to the mix that…

At first, and then I decided to stand (I have a standing-desk) with my legs wide apart and let Mr. Gravity do whatever he wants to my fucking labia. Excelsior!!

“I think it can cloud this issue of this being about black motherhood, or just about Beyonce.” Beyonce is a black mother. So....

what about Kanye?

I’m glad it made you feel empowered though. I just don’t dig celebrity Beyoncé I dig artist Beyoncé.

I felt the same way about this performance. It was like a very long commercial for having a baby.

I think Lemonade felt like it represented more than just her personal experience, It went beyond it. becoming a work of art. maybe it was the introduction from her mother that set it up to be read this way, or given the fact that the other women on stage were her handmaidens - not her equals (whereas in other…

i fucking love this show. jude law is incredible. young pope in a hoodie is a real hottie. i love how smug he is and i love how he wants to fuck shit up.

Not to change the subject but who in their right mind would not give a million dollars to have Frank Underwood be our president elect right now?

A guy on a first date brought me the trilogy because he knew I like to read. Thoughtful, except for the selection. I returned it with no receipt to Barnes and Noble, and they said bc I had no proof of purchase the most they could give me for the whole set was $3.90, in store credit only. I happily took it and felt the…

Insecure is THE BEST thing about tv in 2016 - maybe of the past 5 - 10 years. Girls is a garbage tv show.

Girls is clickbait in these parts and clicks drive coverage. It gets as many clicks from people who HATE IT (and/or Lena Dunham) AND NEED TO TELL THE WORLD (I feel you) as it does from people who like it.

Yep, the episode with Marnie and Charlie, in particular, was one of the better half hours of TV I watched last year, and I watch a lot of TV.

Some of these women identify as bisexual or queer. By calling this a list of lesbians, you’re adding to bisexual erasure, which is a real problem, because bisexual/queer women face more violence than any other sexual orientation, and are discriminated against by both gay and straight people alike.