That’s awful - I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s immensely violating and fucked up.

Oh yeah, I heard of this trick, though I guess it only works with mirrors. Another trick is to set your phone to camera mode, turn off the lights, and if it’s recording you will see a bright light on your screen. However, that only works with the lights off, and if the camera has night vision.

Yes, that’s true, I understand what you’re saying. Thank you for the different perspective.

Can’t it be both? They’re mean as a snake, unrepentant, and a product of their upbringing? Abusers were usually abused themselves growing up. I still don’t think it gives them a pass. But I guess ultimately, it’s up to whomever they hurt to forgive them, or to spit on them as they’re dying (metaphorically or…

I can get behind this. Like telling my abusive father who says no one would ever want to be with me, “Hey, actually, I’ve slept with like (I think?) a dozen men! Anyway, you’re going to hell, c ya!”

I thought perhaps she suspected or felt like she was being watched, then took to the internet to see if a video was out there? I guess if she searched within a certain period of time afterwards, she could’ve found it by looking for the newest additions to the “hidden cam” category. But it is exhausting to imagine how…

This is actually one of my biggest fears. I sometimes try to scope out a public bathroom before using it, but cameras can be concealed pretty well. I also avoid changing rooms for this reason (+1 for online shopping). I’ve had the thought of scoping out porn websites, but that seems like a lot of material to sift…

Oh god, get over yourself.

I’m not saying there’s not a difference; I just dispute divorcing class from race when the two are so intertwined, which is what you did.

Yeah, seriously, those “legal highs” (is salvia still around?) were way more terrifying and dangerous than LSD or shrooms.

it’s a British brand of conservatism that has to do more with classim than race.

I’ve always been an online-shopper because I tire quickly from trying clothes on, plus I like the variety online. If you want to avoid certain fabric compositions, look at that before you buy. I laugh every time I see a sweater that is 80 to 90% wool and people are complaining it’s itchy - well, of course it will be!…

I wonder if it’s because it’s her first time directing? I’ve loved all of the things she’s acted in though.

Same! Also, I love your avatar ... wonder if the podcast is ever coming back. :(

Yeah, those songs for sure bring me back to 2002-2003. Then again, so does The Postal Service!

I know what you mean, Alanis Morissette definitely reminds me more of the 90's. I was listening to like, AFI and Social Distortion in 2003 but that would hardly remind other people of that year.

What is it with men thinking women being friendly = flirting? But if we aren’t, we’re stuck-up bitches? I guess I gotta go out of my way to be more of an asshole to more men.

He should just retire early then. He has enough money to. But I’d be pissed if he was allowed to come back, and I love the Pixar films like so many others out there.

I dunno, after seeing Beatriz at Dinner, I see him differently...but no, I realize that just means he’s an amazing actor. I’ll toss my hat in for Rami Malek.

I was eyeing the 6qt Instant Pot back when it was on sale a couple of weeks ago, but now it’s up again. I didn’t realize $72 was such a deal!

I was eyeing the 6qt Instant Pot back when it was on sale a couple of weeks ago, but now it’s up again. I didn’t…