Dammit, I meant to say she was INSPIRED to be the subject of the song. Sorry.

I wanna grab those boo - I mean pecs.

How about kitten? It's a fun variation, and you can make jokes like, "I know you're allergic, but give it a try. You'll just get weepy for a bit and then you can go home."

Do you mean actual fetish, as in you fond it romantic or even, um, intimate? Because there are psychological and physiological reasons for that.

Jolene was written about a beautiful red-haired fan of hers, if I'm not mistaken. The girl in question asked for an autograph and asked to be made the subject of a song. Dolly might have been being a bit colourful but that's what I've read.