She doesn't know that though and luckily you don't have to spend your life with her.

Why would you feel bad? Dick size is rarely THE discriminating factor in whether someone wants to be in a relationship with you or not. It's merely a factor that has a different weight to it depending on the woman you're interacting with. Sure, it might feel like it's yet another card in a stacked deck against you but…

Tis true, tis true.

If you're suggesting it, I think that's not a form of punishment ;)

Yup, still pluggin along, pun intended. 7 years together, 3 married.

Does she treat skinny guys like shit in activities unrelated to dating, sex, etc? That's where these preference things are put into focus for me - usually the breakdown between "Well why can't people prefer not to be attracted to fat women" and "Why aren't women attracted to my archetype?" is that people don't treat…

Hyperbole must be punished swiftly lest it break the borders of space and time!

Interesting 7 years ;-)

I think you can compare the level of arousal they inspire - tepid is not what you're going for and usually things wouldnt progress to sex if there wasn't a base arousal. That said, I think a lot of men posture that they are more discerning than their peers as some sort of absurd pissing match and in fact would be down…

I used the word girthy no fewer than a dozen times on my first date with my wife - it was 6 am and we were watching porn on a laptop at a diner. I'm not saying its normal but it felt right.

I feel kind of bad that this is news to men although I suppose candid conversations about penis preference don't come up too often.

Setting people up to fail or disappoint, not a good look for anyone.

I find the same thing and I don't view it as a sex substitute. That's the dichotomy - there are people who probably feel most forms sexual touching fills their sex bank for the month. No idea on the mechanism though.

It's because the perception of men based on experience seems to say that the numbers are too low while not thinking of the blind spot that is non romantically entangled men who don't masturbate much and have lower libidos. If all you're doing is basing this off of first hand experience with romantic partners it's…

I think the dichotomy here is that masturbation doesn't serve as a sub for sex while for others it does.

And regrettably, sometimes that guy is just that clumsy/inept.

The comment history says it all

You really undermine this social justice warrior persona by having a history of comments available to look at. What flipped the switch to go from cracking on liberals to being ultra SJW?

verbal rape is a dead giveaway.

mystery solved!