I mean, obviously YMMV, but that’s basically how I think about my ex now. I was the dumpee, so I spent a lot of time flitting between being d.e.v.a.s.t.a.t.e.d. and genuinely furious at him and the world. Now I’m kinda just... meh... when people mention him. I don’t wish him ill, but I also don’t need to waste…