I'm an OB nurse. I've been taking care of pregnant women for over 30 years. Babies almost never arrive 9 months after conception. There's a whole window, from 36 to 42 weeks that is considered term. And some babies come earlier than 36 weeks. Hope that helps.

You reached out so there is some part of you that knows that killing yourself is not something you have to do. Not knowing you or your situation I can only offer that there is help, you can call 800-273-8255 or go to www.suicidepreventionline.org. Please.

It would be fine to have a mid year party to celebrate but the big girl thing to do is specify NO GIFTS. People usually ignore that request so you would probably get some presents. That being said, rethink the whole "poor planning" aspect to your discontent. Parents can't control when their baby is born, nor can…

I'm so sorry you're feeling depressed. Can you tell us what you mean when you say you don't know if you're going to make it in the long run? Are you having thoughts of harming yourself? Are you alone or do you have friends/ family you can contact? Please know there is help available. Please answer.

I was about to quit my job and seek employment as a green screen fluffer. But MAN I hate to be hot. Since being hot seems to be the takeaway from your experience, I guess I'll show back up at the office Monday. Thanks for sharing!

Yes. Cause when I'm in the shower all I do is clean myself and try to take an extra minute to scrub the soap film off the grout. I do not look like I'm having an orgasm. I think I'm showering all wrong.

Mummies+ zombies. From outer space. Now every time the wind blows I'm kissing my loved ones goodbye.

I cannot answer your question, as it raises so many more. However, I do know that The GS Fluffers is a band I want to see...

Love ModCloth. I have to say I disagree that they cater only to the young and twee. I'm old, and I've purchased several items from them. Most have been perfect. My rock-a-billy dress that didn't fit right? I sent it back and got a replacement pronto that was what I needed. I love the customer service. For the price,…

Damn. I've never even seen Hunger Games. And now, I must.

Make sure you as a SAHM get some time alone. It's hard to be home all day with a little one and be pregnant! Spend time with your girlfriends, minus the children. Spend time alone as a couple. Schedule grownups-only dates every week or so.

Thank you. I will take all the advice I can get. I just stare at maps endlessly. I am writing that down!

I'm so sorry. I got fired once. On a Friday afternoon I got called up to the manager's office and was told the same thing as your husband. That was 4 years ago and things are better than ever now, I'm SO glad I got fired. I know it's hard to imagine but hopefully you guys will be able to look back on this as a…

That sounds like a dream vacation to me. I'm planning a road trip next year for 2 weeks as soon as I have enough paid time stored up. I've never been to the Grand Canyon or the Rockies. Visiting my sister who lives in Beatty NV. I can't wait!

how did you know?

I'm pretty sure being famous is not worth the trouble.

During my first marriage, raising the kids, yes. I did EVERYTHING at home, even though both us grownups worked full time. It sucked. Now in my second life, second husband, Mr Zulu does all the daily cleaning AND cooking AND laundry and I do the shit like cleaning the shower, the sporadic chores. I love it. Of course…

And that's what she got for being the unicorn?

I would be pretty mortified if my daughter did this. Young girls just should not be making judgemental comments on the interwebs. I always get so uncomfortable when I see girls who sound like they are in middle school commenting while reading Jezebel and the like

Get out. Get out now. As an OLD who has been around several blocks, I can say without hesitation, get the hell out. Go live with a friend or family member, go. You will land on your feet. This is not normal couple fighting. Pack your bags.