I've been watching American Idol (haven't watched it in years, and for some reason picked it up again this month). Anyway ALL the young dudes (18, 19...) are all drooling over JLo. And I get it. She looks out of this world awesome. Not awesome "for 45" but awesome for any human, period.

I was single for a long time, and after a while it was only younger guys who were interested in me, in some cases a lot younger. Because guys my age wanted younger women. So what am I supposed to do? I actually resisted for a long time. But what the hell. This is who likes me. So I dated them. And it was fun. And…

The plot of The Boy Next Dooris my nightmare and I'm not even a teacher. I think it plays into the fear many women have (get culturally beat into them?) that once you express yourself sexually there will be villainous consequences...even in a situation where the balance of power would seem to be in her favor.

Meh, I think guys who date younger women get just as much crap for it. Maybe not in Hollywood though. In Hollywood, older actors are distinguished and get better roles, while older women are reduced to bit parts and are easily replaced by younger women.

YUP. A big romantic gesture towards someone who has not previously expressed interested in you means that you are thinking only about what YOU want, not what THEY want.

Seriously. This is such such SUCH a HIPPAA violation. I am honestly somewhat sympathetic to the hospital's situation here - with busy, overworked doctors who see lots of young students come and go, and are focused on their patients' needs and not on whack jobs who breach security - but in this case, if I were the…

Wait...so he was in the exam room while the other doctor was performing an exam yet the hospital is releasing a statement about "never having contact with any patients and did not gain access to any patient care areas at any time"? What the actual fuck. That is one big contradiction and I would be so pissed if some…

Yup. Women rarely have a desire to rip anyone's heart out (unless Stacy wears the exact same dress to this wedding, THAT BITCH), but speaking as a guy, way too many of us are way too weird, gross or genuinely unsettling/off-putting in some way.

I cannot read this.

I'm a Filipino Atheist and you obviously know nothing about either subject matter. I spent most of my entire childhood in Angeles- near Clark AFB. The rise of atheism/ agnosticism is not a threat to people of faith. If you want to believe in God- that's your deal. Most atheists I know respect people's religion. What…

This is huge. Really. It's an acknowledgement of the modern world. For all his flaws, this is the first pope we have that seems to have advanced beyond the fifteenth century. Bravo.

Okay ew :P

None of mine were that cringeworthy, but all of them speak to my excellent choices.

Like "Hey, I know we've online talked online a couple of times and it's 1am...but my mate and I are driving around in a hire car and we're going to go really fast, then go up a mountain to take photos, then go in a stormwater…

Damn you.....

i know. salads can be tasty.

It's really comforting to see someone else who cut their siblings out of their lives as well. The line that really stood out for me was, "I will not be alone with them." I'm the same way - I told my mom back when I lived with her and my sisters that I refuse to be anywhere near them in the house or in the car - if my…

I've felt the same way for a long time. They are "The Absolute Worst Generation".

This woman reminds me of my father. I've explained to him over and over again why I have a problem with him (he's an angry person who acts like a psycho) but he's decided that it's entirely something else that's just so silly and geeze, why can't I just get over it?! And he's convinced my grandmother (his mom) that…

Yes, yes, and yes. Cutting family members out of your life is not a decision one takes lightly. I didn't understand it before. Now I do. I will have only limited contact with my siblings. I will not be alone with them. That's just the way it is. Anyone who wants to put the blame on me for that will be shut down…