I’m definitely an (a). I’m not super bad looking, but I’ve got juuuust the right amount of flaws that they cover what most men will find unattractive. It’s like, line up a ton of dudes and ask them the one thing that’s a physical deal breaker and I’ll likely have it, it’s almost uncanny. I'm not even mad about t…

Exactly. If me and my dude break up I will be relegated to perpetual singledom by choice. There's no way I'm wading through the dating cesspool again.

Seriously. My boyfriend and I have talked about having an open relationship, but I’m busy enough as it is, how would I find time to throw another dude (or lady) into the mix without dropping the ball on something else?

My rule is ‘if you can buy it at Tj Maxx it’s probably not that exclusive’. Because that's where I bought my very understated, no logo fancy ass purse that was marked down to $125 from 750.

I never owned a purse until I moved to a city. I rely on public transportation and don’t have a car and eeeeeverytthing is so spread out I simply don’t have the time to run back and forth to pick stuff up between my job, errands, the gym etc. so I try to combine as much as possible. I have a medium sized underarmor…

Yep! When I requested a consultation last year for a reduction, the doctor refused because I am unmarried and have no children. She also mentioned that there was a good chance I would have scarring and wouldn't that detract from wearing a swim suit? Bitch, I have heavily keloids scars on my back and stomach due to…

I went from ‘never owned a bra’ to 36f in the space of about 6 months when I was 19. I have a medical disorder and the meds I was on delayed puberty until I was just out of high school. I developed bad anxiety and didn't want to leave the house for nearly a year because the stares, comments and whatnot made me feel so…

I hit 6’ tall when I was 14, and even when I bought shorts that passed the fingertip test I was told they were too short. My HS guidance counselor told me that my legs were too long so I wouldn’t be able to wear anything shorter than capris because of ‘excess skin showing’. I’m 6’2 now and have enormous breasts and…

Interestingly, this is a point of contention in my current relationship. My boyfriends mother is Jewish, while his dad is catholic, but she is not so subtle on the fact that she wants him to marry someone Jewish and have Jewish babies. His dad wants him to marry a ‘hot young latina’ so his kids will be able to get…

I know a Shannen and her husband Shannon, and another Ashley and Ashleigh. Seni related, my Dad has a traditionally feminine name while my Mom has a traditionally male name. Things were interesting growing up.

At my last job, we didn’t have sick days or vacation days. If we called out or even asked for a day off in advance we had to provide a doctors note. Asking for a day off 3 weeks in advance to go to your kids play? No doctors note, no excuse. We had a woman go into labor during her night shift and still finished the…

Actually, she has a masters in communications from University of the Pacific. I did look it up because USC is one of my top choices for my MBA and I was hoping she'd written about the experience.

Well, that and when a woman makes a mistake (especially in a majority male environment) it’s amplified. I’ve been told to my face by management that ‘this is why women shouldn’t be mechanics’ after I asked a question that apparently had an ‘obvious’ answer. Having the entirity of lady-dom on your shoulders can be a…

Yep. The part about ‘proving yourself before you get accepted’ hit me hard, because when I was working as a mechanic my mistakes were amplified by a thousand. Anytime I made even the smallest error it was brought up again and again and used to keep me in a lower position. The guys could make the exact same error or…

Actually, this is an interesting contrast. Women feel uncomfortable and have a fear factor when being cat called...I wonder if the same could be said about making fun of men loudly in public. Would that create the same shame, the same feeling of losing control and being uncomfortable?

I've got friends who own places in Watertown and they weren't allowed to have chickens or cloven hooves animals :(

Grew up in CA, now live in MA. I’ve had job offers in other states and basically turned them down by saying ‘get your states shit in order and I’ll think about it.’

Well...he did say he’d have 200 kids if it weren’t for condoms. If that were the case I wonder how often and with how many others he has had sex. If that number is in the hundreds, it could explain 34 kids with a 96% condom failure rate.

Ha, right? I know of at least 3 men who are currently living outside the country illegally to avoid child support. Another friend had her husband leave her when she was pregnant with their third, planned child and he planned this for MONTHS by hiding and transferring assets and working with an attorney friend so he…

Ugh. I started a job a few years back making 35k a year, found out that the dude I was replacing made 60k. Honestly, he was hugely overpaid, but I had far more responsibility and general work than he ever did. I found out and was told ‘you’re a young single woman, he was a man with a family’. Bitch, I have tuition to…