Very true. And unfortunately, being in a 'monogamous' relationship isn't even a guarantee of safety. More than one of my friends have found out their SOs were cheating by getting an STD from them. I get tested at least yearly regardless of relationships status which really pissed off my ex. Turns out he was…

hahahahahha no. I've worked in an all male environment for most of my life and I can absolutely say that isn't the case. My boyfriend is super chatty too and more than once I've had to tell him to get to the point when talking.

Ha, I went on two dates with a guy I met off of OKC quite a few years ago. He disappeared (as per usual) and I ran into him at a local watering hole a few months later. I chided him a bit for ghosting, but whatevs, I wasn't that into him either and he told me the reason he didn't call me again was that I was smarter…

Ha, I cracked up about that because the most drama filled workplace I EVER had the displeasure of working in was all men. I was the only woman in the department working with between 13 and 20 men at any one time. They were cattier than the nearly all woman workplace I worked at before that..and the dudes were all…

Actually, I've always seen mansplaining as something a man does to a woman because she can't POSSIBLY be as knowledgeable about a thing as she is. Everything from women's rights and their own reproductive systems to, in my case, engineering and mechanics. You wouldn't believe how much shit I've had mansplained to me…

The minute I felt beautiful was the minute I started wanting to take care of my body. I lost a lot of weight and began doing a lot of super cool fitness stuff. You know what didn't help? People pointing and laughing while I was jogging and gym bros being assholes when I was learning how to lift weights. I quit so…

And yet, you're advocating using 'social pressure' to get people to lose weight. Now, how would you be able to tell if someone is heavy because of a legitimate medical issue or because of choices? How would you know what their blood work looked like or if they're actively trying to lose weight? Do you want to know…

There was an ad in the subway for 'Harvard Bartending School' and someone had blacked out part of the 'B' so it read Harvard Fartending School and I laughed way too hard and am a 15 year old boy.

I had a 'muffin top' when I was clinically underweight. I'm 6'2 and was around 120 lbs and for some reason my body accumulates every little bit of fat around my upper hip area. I even have a 'muffin top' when I'm completely naked. It's just weirdly lumpy there. I regularly run half marathons/5ks/10ks and exercise…

Soo.....it's high school. But with adults who are religious. I can't possibly see how this could ever go bad.

Kinda off topic, but the ONLY people I've known who kicked their kids out for getting pregnant were hardcore conservatives/religious folk. Every.Single.One.

I had acne as a teenager, but it cleared up in my early 20s. Tried coconut oil after being constantly bombarded by a friend who is obsessed and I have NEVER in my life broken out worse. I had clear skin and after 2 days of using coconut oil I now have acne scars on my chin, forehead and my freaking neck. MY NECK. …

My gorgeous cousin plays volleyball for a university in CA and she freely admits that a lot of the girls were chosen because of possibly promotional activities. There are the girls that regularly play and then there are the girls who go to photo shoots or promo activities for possible donation money. They are not…

I'm the only woman in my department at my new job, and the only one in the entire company under the age of 50. I'm super curious to whether or not they're going to have a 'talk' with me about my clothing choices like every other job I've had. I mean, I wore a damn polyester uniform at one job and one day found that…

While I'm far from hot, I've got a rather interestingly shaped body. I'm very large busted, narrow waisted and huge hipped while also being well over 6' tall. I'm just a huge bitch. So, I get A LOT of 'helpful' comments about my attire that all involve wearing circus tents and vampire collared jackets that cover…

Ha, I got one of those too just days after being called an 'ungrateful, ugly, fat cunt' by a guy on that very site.

Wow, that was it? Now, I had something similar to that happen to me...probably 20 times over the course of my 5ish years on OKC. I was also stood up countless times, had a few guys show up, then immediately look at me and turn around and leave and was told by one guy that he was 'really truly falling for me' then…

I really hate when people say 'get off the internet and meet people irl.' I guess that works for average to attractive people, but if you have physical issues, sometimes online is the only way to go. I mean, I've never even been asked out (unless you count that homeless dude at the subway station that smelled like…

The only requirement I had was that they couldn't be more of an enemy than a match. I'm not super attractive and far too tall so I learned pretty early on I can't be super picky. My boyfriend and I met on OKC and I think we had in the mid 60s%, though we'd likely match far higher now. We were both going through a…

My Mom had me at 20 and my Dad was 23...they were woefully unprepared, had a shotgun wedding (still married though!) and my childhood didn't get really good until I was in my late teens/early 20s. They struggled nearly my entire early life and my younger siblings were the ones who were lucky enough to get the ballet…