While I hope I'll never have to do this (in a relationship now, if this one ends I'll be single4lyfe) I am keeping this in mind just in case.

THIS.

I've been in a similar situation and didn't quite have the self awareness/self esteem to get up and leave. I convinced myself that I was the 'cool chick' even though I felt incredibly uncomfortable. Now? I probably would have stood up, very publicly shamed him and stomped out. It would NOT have been pretty. I…

This was the BIGGEST irritation I had when job hunting. I was laid off and luckily found a new job within a few weeks, but went on probably 15 interviews and was told at 5 of them that I had the job. Then, radio silence. I only received a 'we've decided to go a different direction' from one company, and…

I think a lot of it depends on your personal view of 'good service' as well. For me, I want to be left alone when I dine. Coming by once in the middle of the meal to ask how it's going and then maybe just glancing over and topping off my drink if necessary. That's it. I consider being left alone EXCELLENT service…

Actually, I found what you wrote perfectly ok. You basically described me as a 25 year old and considering my sister is 24 and acts like that, I know PLENTY of women who are exactly as you described.

The vast majority of Atheists I've come in contact with don't want to do away with religion at all...they, like I, just want religious folk to keep it to themselves and not try to pass laws based on their beliefs. In addition, many want them to pay taxes like a business if they are ran like a business. I absolutely…

I've had conversations with friends about this, and I think many Atheists go through a 'phase' when they're figuring out and sorting their beliefs where they feel a need to be harsh to religion and it's followers. I went through it in my early 20s and when I look back I'm a bit embarrassed about how combative I was. …

I can guarantee she wouldn't get praise if she was a 'normal' woman, or heaven forbid an unattractive woman. In fact, I have first hand experience with this. I was heavily bullied growing up because of chronic medical issues while my far more attractive friend was praised for being 'brave and strong' for her…

It's a good thing I don't give a fuck what you think.

Me too. I'm also glad I gained some self esteem in my mid 20s :)

I briefly lived in a house with 3 other women and we had a sign just inside our front door that said "Welcome to Vagina Heights". So, that's what I'd call it. Makes it sound super upscale.

Sounds like my ex! I had a biopsy and was told no sex for at least 3 weeks. I was almost completely ignored during that time and he would nag me about sex and then send me internet articles about how it was 'ok' to have sex with the procedure I had. They thought I had cancer. Sorry I wasn't in the mood. And if he…

I don't think almost all men are like that at all, but I'm 31 and it seems like a lot of men around my age are. My bf is pretty awesome and self sufficient which is pretty great, but I've dated plenty of men who were bordering being hoarders because 'taking out the trash and doing dishes is too haaaard'.

At least you're trying! My ex was really nice in the beginning and really romanced me and got me in the mood. He knew exactly what I liked and could easily tell when I was in the mood (which was often!). After we moved in together he turned into a whiny, petulant child who thought that since he 'had me' he didn't…

Yep. He sounds like my ex. Judging by the fact that he sounds like my ex, I'd wager that she's working full time then coming home and cooking/cleaning/doing laundry and then trying to make time to go to the gym and he's rarely, if ever, helping. That's probably why she's tired and feels gross. I wonder if he also…

This is ultimately what ended my last relationship. After working 50 hours a week, plus doing the vast majority of the household chores/laundry/cooking/grocery shopping/cleaning, being in college part time and trying to run/get to the gym so I wasn't 'disgusting' to him I was fucking EXHAUSTED at the end of the…

ha, I'm 6'2 barefoot and all of my heels are at least 4" :D

Seems to be overwhelming cheering him on. Which is good. NOBODY should be able to touch another person without asking.

A slap would be easy compared to what I've done in the past. Automatic, without thinking elbow to the gut...or rather to the genitals because I'm 6 fucking 2, like to wear heels and my elbow goes in peoples crotches. Hard.