Much though it is really important to put this crime in the context of a dangerous and hateful men's rights movement, can we please put the "lol fedora" jokes on hold and show some respect toward the victims of this act of terrorism? He didn't just post a humorously stupid video. He murdered women because of their…

A few observations. I woke up this morning to this tragedy after having slept for about 4 hours. I proceeded to scrub through his videos and skim his online posts. A few things popped out at me:

check out the google cache of his posts on puahate and bodybuilding.com he is like a cartoon of every social ill i have ever rallied against. Like, if he were fictional, no one would accept something this on the nose. Just goes to show, "if you don't know, I couldn't tell ya." He was the only person in the world who…

At least when your a Cool Girl you don't have to twirl around in the rain like a complete twat.

Totally. Though the fact that women still have to be put into these little whimsical boxes by men sucks.

Weird thing to be irritated by. Many of us do marry our best friends. I was best friends with my husband for 10 years before we became involved romantically. Just because we started cuddling and having sex doesn't mean we suddenly stopped being best friends...

By area code, duh.

Agree! In Canada it is just as common to hear Partner as it is to hear Husband/Wife. I think that it has something to do with the legal recognition of common-law relationships which have essentially the same legal benefits as marriage and are available to any couples, regardless of orientation. I refer to my…

That drives me NUTS. It devalues non-romantic relationships. I am absolutely enthralled and committed to my fiance, but my best friends are a lady I commonly refer to as "Walter" or "Wonderpumpkin" ...and my cat. (Shut up.)

From now on everyone should please refer to my husband as my "consort," thanks.

No, you're totally right.

I'm an asshole and I'll show myself the fuck out.

Fortunately, "Baby Mama" works just fine for me and my six Baby Mamas.

This may also be a US thing. When I was living in NZ/Australia, the term partner was used VERY often. It seemed like it was used in lieu of boyfriend/girlfriend, because at a certain age, that begins to sound a bit immature for what the relationship is. I also heard it used for married couples as well. I like the…

Q: What do you call your significant other?

A: Best Friend and Partner in Crime.

So ... partner? Or Accomplice. Depending on whether we've been formally charged.

HANG ON! I wasn't saying we should stone her to death for being cool and famous. I just meant - I can see the process behind her behaviour now. She's fun, down with doing shots and farting etc. etc. and she likes talking about it in public and making sure we all know about it. And if that's her authentic self then…

Do you work in Pawnee, Indiana?

Here's my question:

I just can't look at her the same way after reading that 'cool girl' article that Buzzfeed did. It kind of cleared the haze of 'omg I love her' that I had. I mean...there's no Manic Pixie Dream Girls anymore - it's all about The Cool Girl.

there's a girl at my job who is a personality clone of JLaw, especially here. She's cute, too. You can all be jealous of me now :)