The ones who are terrible are terrible because of being in a bad environment. I'm not one to Blame The Parents all the time for everything, there are a lot of factors that play into how kids develop, including psychological factors that sometimes can't be properly handled because of money/stigma etc... but, that being…

We don't want to pay for it. We're cheap.

So after reading this whole thread I feel compelled to comment. I know that you don't think what you are saying is wrong but you need to take a minute and reevaluate some of the statements you made. They are serious warning signs of some mental health issues that you should look into getting treated (including the…

why does she act like she can just cut herself off from me so unceremoniously as if there is nothing I can do about it?

[T]here is nothing in the world she can do to get them back," you said. To me, that sounds like you are holding on to them because you know that you are holding something over her, and that makes you feel like you have more control over the situation.

I understand, but 'revenge porn' is such a deeply misogynistic concept. It shames women for being sexual, in itself, because the person taking revenge knows, at the end of the day, a woman branded a 'slut' (which in effect means 'sexuality' full stop) is still on some level considered worthless. Imagine a website like…

Your pain is understandable.

You can think that she should have dumped you in a more adult fashion, but you probably shouldn't include money you spent during the relationship in the equation, unless you believe that you're purchasing affection.

Cool story, bro. One time someone stopped fucking me and started fucking someone else. I didn't slash his tires or drive my car into the wall of his place of employment. Is this where I come to claim my cookies?

What do we want to bet that the person who wrote that is currently applying to law schools?

I long for the day when I don't have to pull this image out so fucking frequently.

Well, that's because he probably would be doing it wrong, because if you've spent ninety years not doing chores, you're probably not going to be great at them the first time you try! That's not an argument against Morty helping, it's an argument for teaching Morty how to clean properly.

OMG. When she climbs on the unstable chair to clean their lighting fixture I always yell at my tv. BECAUSE MORTY IS TALL AND COULD PROBABLY REACH WITHOUT STANDING ON A RICKETY ASS CHAIR.

Black culture is not a homogeneous thing and no one gets to tell me how I should or should not act.

I once walked into a CiCi's Pizza, and the cashier thought I was Latino... She immediately began to speak to me in Spanish."I don't speak Spanish," I replied.
She looked confused and offended as if I had abandoned "my" culture, and asked in a disgusted manner, "Why not?"
"Because I'm Filipino, " I said dryly. The look…

Friday night, white guy I work with says "So, are you a cabbie?" to my Indian husband. He knows my husband is an accountant.

You couldn't find a person of color to write this article?

" Ms. Moon, you sound like a skinny white girl on the phone. You WISH, huh?! Har-di-Har-Har!!" - Said to me by a client I knew when I worked front desk at an acupuncture clinic.

Ugh. This.

Writing "You don't act black." on all the things. I've heard it so much that I should say it before other people do. "Hi. Nice to meet you. I've been told I don't act black."