Said so much more concisely than me. Thank you, that's exactly it!

I also like M/M but have trouble finding quite what I like, and that, too, seems a question of gaze - I am enjoying the action, but if the camera were my eye, it'd be in a different place a lot of the time, and I think I may have different aesthetic…

For me, 'women friendly' is a matter of empathy. I don't want there to be barriers to my putting myself in the place of the woman on screen.

There are three steps in experience - *1)the man does something potentially stimulating, 2)woman enjoys it, 3)woman moans and writhes, and everyone (man, woman, audience) is the…

Oh, yes. I feel exactly the same way about this. Thank you.

I'm just curious how many people would need to tell you you're wrong, before you come to the conclusion that it might be you rather than them. If 20 people 'misinterpret' something, could it be...? Is the problem that they disagree, or that they're women, and feminists, therefore angry and wrongheaded ('pitbulls,…

Big, mean feminists!

It's hard to go into a space where you're no longer afforded (as much) gender privilege, isn't it.

This is not an abstract issue. This is something that effects the lives of many, directly. Comments like yours add to the stigma of mental illness, and prevent many from getting the treatment that could allow them to live healthy, fulfilled lives. Anyone who DOESN'T take umbrage with that is lacking empathy, or just…

You said that you'd opened up for a moment in your comment, but I just mocked you.

When you say things like 'why am I responsible for their orgasm? I'm already responsible for my own' - Pro tip: selfishness in the sack is a guaranteed girlbone killer. Visit a page largely frequented by women and say this, and you're…

You know, while I'm truly sorry for any pain you might be in,you really can't have it both ways.

The idea that women are there to soothe your ego, heal your wounds, and generally watch for your feelings, while you get to act according to however your proclivities move you - is highly misguided. I am not your…

Where does pain and misery come into this? If you're having a rough time of it right now, I'm sorry. I don't wish that upon anyone.

Oh my gosh. Mucho macho. Oo la la! Etc.

Paladin, meet Atlas. Atlas, like you, is a man carrying a heavy burden.
His is the world. Yours, it seems, is the clitoris.

You know how, when you're eating a big, hot juicy hamburger with all the fixings, you have to be careful not to let the bun get soggy and fall apart, and over time you work out how to eat it before that happens, while maximizing your enjoyment?

Girls are, like, way more worth it than hamburgers.

Clits are more special…

You made me laugh out loud. <3
Thank you.

My last boyfriend, a 6 year ltr, told me on the first date that he was an 'intellectual'. I laughed out loud, thinking it could only have been said in self-parody. Who comes out and says that? But no. Not joking.

He read research, non-fiction, books with ideas in them. But kept his old time, good-ole-boy, douchefrat…

The mainstream will always reward people from a minority group who speak, and affirm, as 'insiders', the criticism-often verging on hate- the mainstream has for that group.

If anyone would like me to be an anti-feminist, anti-woman, anti-jew mouthpiece, I'll be over here. I take everything but AmEx.

Dang.
I am going to have to reclassify my 'tasteless porn'.

There's almost a Prince vibe to this photo. I find myself unwillingly attracted.

I'd understand this argument if the question was, "will this entirely eliminate cervical cancer?" But no one claimed this. The claim's that it will reduce incidences of HPV, and save lives. To do either, the vaccine doesn't need to protect against all serotypes of HPV, nor does it have to protect you against all other…

You are not reading my comments, if you somehow think I implied in any way that street harassment is a compliment.

So it's completely impossible?

If you don't understand my experience, make an effort before labeling me. Don't shout me down. We all have different things we've been through. She told us where she's coming from. I shared that I'm coming from a different place.

To reiterate - i didn't say her experience was an enviable…