I kind of insist on it. I prefer to have at least one before he has his. I mean, most dudes can't have multiple orgasms, so if he finishes before me, it's pretty annoying because then he's pretty much out for the count and I'm left to get myself off.

I had an entire set of Nightmare Before Christmas-themed panties that glow in the dark. It wasn't really to be sexy, it was just entertaining.

Look. I'm trying to be civil. These things are incredibly important and we need to be able to discuss them. There will be times when the issues of racism and sexism go hand-in-hand. I'm not arguing that this is often or that we should ignore current power structures within the feminist community, but arguing that they…

After what, three (I've seen two on Jezebel and the one they linked to was on Gawker) articles about his disgusting racism, we can't also be upset over the fact that he's a sexist, too? These things need to be studied, sometimes together. Why? Because they so often go hand-in-hand. That's why this is unsurprising. If…

Are you an OB/GYN? Because unless you are, those are some pretty ostentatious claims you're making. You don't need to tell an adult human what they should do with their lives. It's none of your business and people can take care of themselves. Is it so unbelievable that someone you don't know understands their body…

Then representation isn't the only issue here.

Yeah, and the girls I'm living with next semester are so much more reasonable human beings. We already talked about the idea of, if something's bothering you, you just tell them, and all three of us agreed that we'd find a solution if stuff wasn't working. The roommates I have currently were always pretty resistant to…

So. Things have not been going well the past couple of days weeks months and I guess I just came to vent. It's one of those annoying situations where everything happens all at once.

Yup. Generally men I know and trust, too. This includes my own father.

I like 'em, but mostly just for teasing, which is part of a power exchange dynamic, so it's definitely not for everyone.

Thanks <3

Not stronger, I just sometimes need reminders that love is still around.

My boyfriend died last March. I probably shouldn't have watched this, but I feel so happy that they got to have this time together. When she started talking about when he got sick, I really lost it, haha. I'd like to give this lovely woman a hug and talk for hours about our loves.

People who scoff at empathy are the absolute worst.

We also have to think about the way women have been socialized. These days, young girls are discouraged from being too sexual, which can inform their tastes later in life. If you grow up told, over and over, that all you need to be happy is a relationship with a man, you start to internalize that.

36J here. Nothing fucking fits right. If you don't wanna see my boobs, you should just blindfold yourself because that's literally the only way.

I wish I could be religious. My boyfriend died last year and nothing would make me happier than the promise that I could see him again someday. But I just don't believe in that stuff. It's fine that other people do and I'm more than happy to talk about religion with them (provided we can all be civil with each other)…

And that's your right to identify however you want, but sexuality doesn't technically work that way. I'm not trying to dictate how you identify, but it can be problematic, especially for bisexual people, when others assume that we have to "prove" our sexuality by acting on our desires. It lets people label bisexuals…

I don't mean to invalidate your sexual identity, and by all means dismiss this reply if it comes off that way, but what you describe is the definition of bisexuality. That's not to say you can't identify however you like or that, after reading two sentences you wrote, I can interpret your sexuality better than you…

I get where you're coming from, but just because some people do that does not invalidate bisexuality. It's incredibly myopic to reduce an entire sexuality to attention-seeking behavior. This is a technique employed by homophobes to deny that homosexuality is a valid sexual identity. Don't extend that to bisexuals…