I felt the same. The video was crap, but the song was pretty awesome. I mean, a feminist jam that I can play at parties and dance to? Fantastic...

Exactly. Has me wondering if she wrote it, or if she even remembers singing it...

Nah, he told his friends that were ladies that he had them. It's not really that hard. He was just very considerate and sweet.

Yeah, he was a sweetpea.

My last boyfriend, even before he met me, carried a couple pads and tampons around in his bag for his female-bodied friends. He did this because once, a friend of his got her period at dinner in a fancy restaurant. She accidentally ruined the chair because she didn't notice it at first. She didn't have anything with…

Mine just happens to be on a lunar cycle. Every full moon. I feel like an awesome werewolf or something...

I wasn't really a fan of Divergent. I really enjoyed the first bit, where Tris is coming into her own, but there were some weird things to me. I get that there had to be a ruling faction, I get that, for the plot to work, the ruling faction had to be corrupt, but it just didn't sit right with me that it had to be…

I got excited when I saw this because I thought it was going to be about how women's nipples are functional, not inherently sexual, and how if a man shows his nipples he's not going to offend anyone.

Brrr, that gives me chills. So fucking creepy. Why don't these guys, who obviously notice that the actor is being scary pick up on it when they do it themselves?

SUNY Geneseo student here. For me, it was a choice between Geneseo and SUNY B. Both fantastic schools and super affordable for in-state kids. I'm so glad I transferred here.

That's a good point. But I mean, the kids hear these things too. They're probably hurt by them. It's not a stretch to think they could have wanted to do this.

To me it was more like Project Unbreakable, were sexual assault victims hold posters with their attacker's words on them. It hurts, but it means you own what happened, and recognize that it wasn't right and that it wasn't your fault.

I'm all for getting professional help and making sure we talk about sexual assault, but if the friend is coming to them with issues, the letter writer should be able to do the same. Friendship is complicated, and we can't all be perfect friends all the time because we're human and humans fuck up, but if you expect…

I don't think the person's inherently a jerk, but I've learned that even telling friends what you need or don't need from them won't always help either.

Exactly! I lost a few friends when I told them about my rape. Some people can't handle it, and that's on them. I don't have time for people who expect me to carry them emotionally but can't allow me to vent about one of the most traumatic things that's ever happened to me. It was the same when my boyfriend passed…

Sounds really cool. I try to do that with my writing stuff too.

Haha, no problem. It's definitely not my creation. I've heard it in a bunch of places. Happy to pass it on!

That sounds awesome. I'd totally watch that. Is that like what you get to do on a daily basis?

Haha, hi. Doing well. Just been concentrating on school. How about you?

Kinda like how all squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares. Or not all racists are Republicans, but if you're a racist, you're likely a Republican...