Unless, of course, he photoshops your face onto a picture of a naked woman's body.

Okay, but does it really conflict with all the random bullshit we see on here? No. It's really not that big a deal.

Because Jezebel is always filled with serious stuff. This site rates gossip magazines with poop textures and has regular videos of Lindy West eating horrible seasonal foods. What difference does it make?

Fox probably makes her fill a ridiculous bullshit quota to maintain her contract.

I don't live in Michigan, I don't ever plan on moving there, but what the flying fuck? I'm genuinely tearing up reading this. Why does this keep happening?

I'm still not getting the logic. I had an ex who outed my private sexual business as well as a secret of mine to my mother, which then caused my mother to think I was a sexual deviant. She tried to have me put into inpatient care at a psychiatric facility. I told him those things in confidence, he blabbed and almost…

So your first impulse was to ruin her life? I'm genuinely curious here. Being dumped sucks, watching someone you used to date go out with someone else sucks, but really? That's the thought process?

I dunno, it's almost impossible to pin down how kids will be. And some girls will just love pink...I mean, it's all they see for girls, and if they identify as girls they'll want to perform their gender, but sometimes kids just prefer certain colors and activities. There's some women who just enjoy doing homey things.

Thank you. I was really blown away by the lack of real thought that went into this article. This is something that maybe...14-year-old Writer4003 would think, before I was aware of so many other things that go into being a feminist - intersectionality and all that.

Thanks, and sorry things were a little rude in the beginning.

I guess that's where we have to disagree. I can see her as a woman brought up in a backwards, shitty way that probably included abuse from her early childhood on. And I don't make the jump that dating him = cheerleading a murderer. I mean, of course she had to know about what he did, but I'm guessing she was probably…

I get where you're coming from, I do. I know I seem like a fucking snob to you, but it's possible to be outraged about more than one thing at a time. The difference here is that I see that this guy is a horrible, disgusting piece of human scum who has victimized many, many people. What I'm saying is that she can be a…

This guilt-by-association bullshit is illogical and you know it. She didn't pull the trigger, she didn't necessarily approve of what he did. You don't know why victims stay with their abusers and it's a lot more complex than you're making it.

Again, you have to have an intimate knowledge of how abusive relationships work. No one's saying you have to give her money or make her cookies, or tell her she's a special snowflake, but your negative attitude with victims is part of the reason they choose to stay with their abusers. They know everyone will think…

So she had something to do with the murder? Are you serious? So now we're blaming Jack the Ripper's girlfriend for his slaughter of women?

This guy pointed a gun at her. I think we can conclude that that's at least some kind of abuse.

Not blaming her, obviously. And she should get support in a way that feels comfortable to her. For now, that may be someone to check in on her while she's at home with him. It may change later. She has to want the change, but she won't want it if she's going to be labeled an idiot for her behavior.

Can you prove she's never been abused?

What should she do? Seek support from people who aren't blaming her all the time.

Because you don't fucking know her life. She probably has no self-esteem, no self-awareness to recognize that, and nobody to support her. But no, let's write the victim off as an idiot because it's easier than recognizing she probably has some issues. It's easier to pretend it's "natural selection" if she dies than to…