Honestly, I think you have a right to draw the line on this one. It's not as if you dislike him because of some personality quirk or clash, he's been an absolute shit to you on a consistent basis. Nobody has the right to degrade you, ever. You don't have to subject yourself to that kind of behavior, ever. Not to be an…

I'm afraid of having a scene like that, justified or not. If you knew that your in-laws might have behaved that way, would you have been upset if they declined to come but offered up the idea of having empty seats reserved for the 'sick' members?

Oh, you're not wrong- I DID post this for support. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. How else can I handle it, though? You're suggesting there's an off-switch for my objection to the marriage. I've made it clear to my sister that I will love her no less if she marries him, but I've also stated that I…