Is he OK?

Just remember there's nothing wrong with wanting a lot of frequent, hot, lusty sex with a partner you find majorly hot. If that's what you want out of being with him, then that's you doing you. Nothing wrong with getting that want out on the table early on - "I like lots of sex and I'd like to have lots of sex with…

Cats are very strange. I've had cats as pets all my life and I respectfully disagree with those who say cats can't be spiteful. Personal experience: my dearly departed Buddha did not like my dad AT ALL. It was a fairly common occurrence for my dad to find Buddhapoop in his slippers in the mornings after trying to get…

Yep, yep, yep. I'm quite OK with saying "have sex" even for the most intimate, sensual, connected experiences I've had. I feel like "making love" casts the acts of sex in a somewhat unflattering light, in that it's perfectly fine to have sex without involving love. Have sex for the sake of the sex and orgasms, but…

Sorry if I went overboard with the TMI earlier. I got carried away. I've been the recipient of not so good oral and the giver of some not that great oral in the past, so when I can spread the gospel of amazing oral I do. And I meant to say if she sees you trying to improve YOUR technique she just might return the…

Could they be - in the words of my lovely sister - spiteful shitters? Her furbaby will go out of his way to poop right next to his box when he's ticked off - like you fed me 30 minutes later than usual today.

You may have to suck it up with her gag reflex issue - no pun intended. It's something that can change with time but you don't want to form the association for her of automatically thinking bj = gag/vomit. A past TriLamBoy was huge and we had bj/gagging/cramping issues until we come up with some work arounds and…

Try the GeekCrafts blog. I've seen some cool things there, and visit Pinterest, the Mecca of all things crafty.

I get what you're saying now. I've been there before. I didn't start feeling any different about relationships and sex until they happened when I least expected it. It wasn't anywhere on my radar and then I found myself in a relationship without actively looking for one, but it felt right, and slowly my perspective…

Keep trying - it was your first time. Try something different. Ask a trusted friend for tips. Watch something sexy. Set the mood with music, candles, etc. Don't just give up without a little more exploration. See a doctor to make sure everything is OK with all parts before declaring yourself asexual. There's nothing…

I often experience the opposite since I teach science. I'm like "Dude - I have a degree in Chemistry - not from a med school - I just play a doctor on TV". My students ask me things all the time and I try to keep up with the latest in the news so I can be reassuring as I tell them to see a doctor if they're concerned…

Better now than later - if he can't deal then you can break it off with much less drama. Who needs someone who can't handle the difficult parts of life?

I'm good at math but don't always like it. I majored in Chemistry, minored in Biology in college, but my minor was Physics when I first started. I stayed in Physics all the way through 10 hours of college Calculus, then I changed my mind about the Physics. I guess my math issue boils down to 1 thing:

I get what you're saying - I'm just about to go back to school on Tuesday, and I feel the same way. Mentally I move into fall mode when school starts, and I'm trapped inside all day, which doesn't help. I started taking Zoloft in the spring and it has made a difference. Just keep going outside as much as you can and…

The squirming might be an indication that what you're doing at the time feels way too intense for her but she is embarrassed/afraid to speak up. Sometimes too much attention focused entirely on the clit is just too intense. Maybe the technique you're using on her clit is too overwheming. Pay attention to the labia and…

When you find out what it takes to be a potato chip kinda gal, please share. I've had that kind of relationship before, with an incredibly sexy, hot guy, and I have no idea why/how we ended up like that. I thought he was way out of my league so I resigned myself to us being friends. Apparently he viewed it differently…

Oh I feel you and wish I had the best advice ever for you but I don't other than don't let it be a main point of conversation if you can help it - just change the subject when mom brings it up. If that doesn't work, just don't tell her about any relationship, realized or potential, until there's something worth…

I have 6 cats right now. We leave 2 bowls of dry food out at all times. 3 of the cats are big but we have learned that it is their build - they are not obese. We've been doing this for our cats since I was young and have never had an issue with obesity. One of my younger cats panics if he can see the bottom of the…

If you have access to wax myrtle trees like those found here in SE LA, try putting leafy branches of wax myrtle under your furniture. Fleas seem to dislike it intensely. I grew up helping my gran put this under her furniture to deal with fleas from the cat. She'd tell me to go get her branches of flea tree when it…

I feel your pain sista! Add to that the fact that my boobs are "Average figure" teardrops and the bra buying is an annoyance at best. I keep buying Cacique bras - the only option for cute bras in this size range that I've found. Even those are weird - they need to make a B+/C- cup.