oh my god i am **just** like this guy. the farts, the squishy-ness, the potbelly. omg!

I really like the idea of Jay Z practicing choreography.

That might win the award for "dumbest and most oblivious thing a man has ever said to a woman."

Thank you for sharing this. I think what you said about desire being an oppressive weight is so interesting. I was just thinking about this after I left work today. One of my coworkers is a sleaze and is married but has many mistresses and other women and is always trying to hit on me. He's the young attractive guy…

Of course it's not a healthy mindset, but for many (probably most) women, it's just reality. You're never 100% safe. The feeling of security that men must have is alien to us.

I always think that. And then I think "but there's still time." It has made me not trust men at all.

Thank you for sharing. I totally understand why you might feel this way about L&O: SVU. I am a big fan of the show. Most of the episodes focus on the police and ADAs as they try to find and persecute the perp. A very small fraction of the show is the actual assaults (and sometimes they don't even show them at all —…

They both would have been amazing! Cameron Diaz is way off here.

It's very sad to me because I identify with Ted. I know he's obnoxious and hard to listen to, and he's a sap and romantic and just wants to get married (but still wants to date).... I get it. When I first started watching the show years ago I liked it because it made me sort of hopeful. Ted went through A LOT with so…

Victoria. Is. The. Worst. UGH

That's a really interesting theory, actually.

Honestly, I don't think something like that is a lack of communication. It is a lack of courtesy. I don't understand why women are tasked with having to keep track of chores like dishes and assign tasks accordingly. Why do I even have to ask? Why is it on me to notice and ask?

I have some thoughts on this, and here they are. This will just sit in the grays but I don't care cause I want to say it, damn it.

I knew someone who would wake up in the middle of the night to drink coke.

My mom learned Spanish in her 40s and passed the fluency exam from the Spanish Ministry of Education and Science. Totally possible. Good luck!

That one really was terrible. I thought it was interesting that they showed what behaviors child sexual abuse survivors could exhibit (with the first kid) but then the whole girl with cancer is raped — but not really! — it's her crazy money grubbing grandma making her lie! was just crazy.

I think the screen cap on this article is roughly season 9.

Elliott *swoon*

Is this real!??!?

I see what you mean. I think the sexual assault in the prison was more plausible than a serial rapist waiting in her home and they talked a LOT after the fact about her having PTSD and how her job affects her recovery. They were really honest with it. Women who are disenfranchised are at risk. Women in prisons are…