Thanks. It did but it didn't as much as you'd think - her crappy and weird behavior wasn't new. Without getting into a thing where everyone pulls out their Tiny Violins, she's the reason I didn't recognize abusive behavior as abusive and put up with him for so long.

#2) This disgusts me so much. If your friends continue to be friends with harrassing douchebag, they are signaling to HDB that he can harass with impunity; that there are no consequences for his behavior. THAT is what you need to communicate to them; not that it "hurts you," but that he has violated societal norms of…

This article is also on Gawker, but even though I posted this there, it doesn't hurt to let her know.

No, I think that was someone else. If I remember correctly, it was a young woman who had been texting.

No. Just... no. Fuck this woman. I hope she dies in a fire, yesterday.

What a piece of shit.

Don't forget to mention the part where her husband is a police officer and was driving behind her that night!

Fuck her. I hope that everyone in her circle shuns her; I hope that when this piece of shit goes to Starbucks, they refuse to fill her order. I hope the local grocery store refuses to serve her. I hope that her friends, if someone so terrible could have any, drop her like a hot potato. I fucking hope that her cat runs…

I have never wanted to punch a stranger so hard in my life. What kind of a human being does this? Is she a sociopath or just profoundly self-absorbed to an obscene degree? I can't even.

Young Anderson Cooper looks a lot like Keanu Reeves...

You could have used one of their dreadlocks as a tampon...

I FORGOT A GOOD ONE. I was on BART, during rush hour when the trains are packed. I was standing up near a woman who was sitting down. With no warning, she scoots to the edge of the seat, reaches up her dress, AND PULLS HER TAMPON OUT, it's DRIPPING BLOOD, and she STUFFED IT IN THE SPACE BETWEEN THE SEAT AND THE WALL.

I sat with friends in a cafe in Manhattan during a rain storm. The entire cafe was the disturbed front row audience to two homeless men having anal sex in the doorway of the house across the street. This was not a dark, seedy, NYC alley, this was a lovely, upscale little neighborhood in the middle of the afternoon. 5…

Hand to heart truth. In Amsterdam I saw a very large woman, both weight and height wise (she had to be over six foot, and around 300 lbs of fat and raw muscle? Lady was built) drop her trousers and squat against the wall of my Hotel, while relieving herself of both Numbers 1 & 2. She was using her little person…

I was a pharmacy tech in college. One guy brought in a prescription for antibiotics for a staph infection on his arm. When he gave me the rx, his wound was either bandaged or covered by his shirt, I don't remember. So while this guy was waiting for me tofill his meds, he decided he needed to check his blood sugar. I…

I went on a whale watch in Maine with my family when I was like thirteen (and thus easily embarrassed). Welp, the waves were more than almost everyone on board could handle and the whole boat became a giant puke machine as literally like 95% of the passengers and crew started barfing, into barf bags or wherever it…

Given that you're disregarding anything unless you've personally experienced it, as one man to another (because clearly you'd never take the word of a woman) I'd say no, you are most certainly not "an ally."

So you would rather go with your own experience than listen to people who have ACTUALLY experienced the things we discuss?