Transgender kids have to go through extensive counseling and psychiatric examination before they transition. It’s not like playing dress up. We have lots and lots of research that shows that gender is set by around age 2-3. It isn’t really that complex.

Sooooooo here is the thing. Of course it is very badly written and corny, but I clicked on the #AskELJames on twitter and immediately got a bad taste in my mouth from the tens of first tweets from people implying that ANYTHING like being tied down in a relationship sitch as a rule is a sure abuse. I mean, hey. I dig…

We once took my grandparents out to a restaurant for their anniversary. It was an authentic German restaurant, at least as authentic as someone can get in the United States, and my grandparents were both born and raised Germans. For the meal, there were no complaints. It was good food. But my grandpa kept this look on…

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6 months for using the wrong bathroom? I get your prison industrial complex needs more nonviolent criminals to keep the profits high, but that is fucked up even for America.

Reason #2863 I’m single in my early 40s: I don’t play this game with people. I don’t ego stroke the fragile men. I will not play dumb, I will not pretend I can’t change my own flat tire, and I will never say in a breathy voice, “Ohhhhhh, your arms are soooo biiiggggg....” No. Because people who need that in order to…

Answer: a better one than you were in yesterday.

Liberty and Justice don’t give a fuck what you think, Texass public servants.

This is starting to make the rounds on twitter.

Fucking finally.

The only thing I can say is: Next November, be prepared to VOTE. Because Conservative d-bags are going to use this to whip their Tea Party fanatics into a frenzy, and we should expect them to turn out in record numbers. Victory often inspires passivity. Just sayin’.

I love how conservatives love to side step the issue that there are lots of churches that approve of and support gay marriage. Where is there religious freedom?

This is not the end. EVERYONE still needs to go out and vote, AT EVERY LEVEL of politics, otherwise this can be reverted. See the back tracking on abortion, voting rights act, etc.

I just want to remind all those “God is very sad today” types that the United Church of Christ — which is one of the original American churches that can trace its lineage to the Puritans — has sued North Carolina for violating its Christian liberty to marry gay people. Suck on the First Amendment, Scalia.

Do you guys ever wonder what it’s like to be on the wrong side of history? Like how embarrassing the four dissenting justices are going to be to their grandchildren (if they aren’t already?)

Dear People who are angry at this,

I’m a straight guy, crying at my desk... here’s the end of the decision, and it’s beautiful:

I don’t know about Cara, but I looooovvvvve having my own sexuality mansplained to me. It’s as if they think they are doing you a favor by cluing you into the fact that, despite what must be your low self esteem, you can still create boners. It always goes something like:

There is no shield against an advance that works quite as well as resting bitch face.

It’s not a cure-all, but it will get unwanted attention givers to back off most of the time. For the rest, you just gotta maintain the bored stare.