Yeah, this does not work at all. My guy roommates don't care about rotting food left out and gathering flies, the sink being full of three-week-old dishes, and piles of their dirty socks and boxers on the living room floor. If the cleaning system was based on the person who cares more doing all the cleaning, my whole…

That worked OK when I had roommates and we all had similar thresholds. I was cool cleaning up when I felt things were a little too dirty/messy. But now that I'm married, that shit is not flying. I thought it would be OK but honestly it makes me really resent my husband when I'm the one cleaning 100% of the things 100%…

I met the BF on WoW. He was a night elf rogue, I was a gnome mage. I admired his stealth skills, he admired my arcane blast. We raided together and it worked out perfectly because he only rolled on leather, so I got a better shot at cloth. It's been 4 years now, and we've been through other MMOs (looking at you…

I don't really think it's "as a guy." You yourself don't see it that way, which is fine. But it's not your gender that's determining that. Like I mentioned in my post, many men I know do indeed feel the way I do. So I'm not convinced it's that.

Anyway, for me that doesn't ring true but I respect your opinion. …

Yes, you're missing something. But I'm glad! Because anyone who avoids a film/book/show just because "girls like it" has some growing up to do, to say the very least. Just the fact that you believe it's only popular with girls shows how small your bubble is (I know just as many men who love The Hunger Games as women).…

I am a guy, and neither me or my wife have read the books. I saw the first movie and was pleasantly surprised. I saw the second movie and was blown away. If you don't know any guys who have seen it, then either your guy friends are too insecure to watch a movie that girls happen to be seeing, or they don't appreciate…

For some reason, men seem driven away by movies with female main characters. This is probably because there's not that many examples of good action movies with female main characters, so they figure they're getting either a drama or romance of some kind...which of course isn't the case, but that's just the way people…

Ah yes, Thor 2.

Not responding to you just to give myself a pat on the back, I just feel like it's dumb as hell when people complain about how UGH EVERYTHING IS OFFENSIVE TO SOMEONE DO WE HAVE TO WEAR UNIFORMS NOW!?

Why do you care, though? Why is it SO HORRIBLE that this one little thing might be problematic, and therefore probably a good idea to avoid? Is that really such a HUGE hindrance to you? Is it really SO INCONVENIENT that you have to whine about only being able to wear jeans and keds? Seriously, it's not difficult.

I live 4 blocks from there. I promise you it is racist because its meant to be. They thought that living in this neighborhood that I have enjoyed for the past 13 years after leaving even deeper in Brooklyn where I grew up, would make their intentionally racist theme go no farther than their friends. My neighborhood…

You bummed 'cause you thought your hair chopsticks were super cute? Sad for you! I know, it's SUCH A PAIN when people point out racism—such a killjoy, amirite?!? Like, when someone tells you you're doing something hurtful, it's like, whatever! It's inconvenient to avoid hurting people, we can't be bothered with petty…

Awww, avoiding racist stereotypes is hard, huh? It's just so much work to, you know, be a baseline decent human being! Poor you! You have my sympathy, really.

I guarantee people at that party will say, "Me love you long time!" and then they'll laugh and laugh and laugh. Why is it amusing to joke about young women being forced into prostitution? I can see why people think quoting from movies is funny, but why is this particular quote seen as so funny? It can see how the…

Took the words right out of my mouth

Dear white people*(I mean in the general sense, so if you don't do this, don't go nuts),

At the VERY LEAST, How can you not know that "coolie" is an ethnic slur? It even SOUNDS like an ethnic slur. If I were to see something my company was producing, and I saw the word "coolie" in it, I'd immediately Google that shit and oh look it took me exactly two seconds to see that "coolie" = ethnic slur.

Jeezus. That C-word is still a highly offensive term where I'm from. Akin to the n-word. You can get punched in the face for saying it. And the dude would have help.

I was half-willing to give this the benefit of the doubt as just pretty tasteless. And then I got to the coolie part. If you know what a coolie is, you cannot in good faith use that word as a hilarious theme for your awful racist party. Simple as that. If you're plain ignorant of Chinese-American history, that's one…

There doesn't seem to be an apology there...