Guys!! This is me! Do you like it? Opinions?

Are they signed to a label or is this just local stupidity?

If someone actually signed this, thought it was a good idea to pay for production and marketing, then I have a problem. If it's just some general idiots, then whatever - there are a shitload of bad racist/sexist bands out there and I don't have the energy…

If you elope, gifts are not to be expected and it would be considered rude to open a registry. You might be surprised by the generosity of the people who love you, though. I had a family friend who eloped and people still sent her modest amounts of cash and gift cards as a "congrats."