I do think a lot of this is about what women have been taught to want.

Maybe you feel this way because you think you deserve “credit” for being a decent human being instead accepting it as the baseline we all have to meet. Yeah, it’s hard being a respectful and kind human being but no one gets any fucking recognition for it. You do it because others deserve it as a basic human courtesy.

I literally wrote that I keep it in the refrigerator.  

Absolutely do not compost dog poop. This is terrible advice that no one recommends for a reason.

Why would they be filthy? Do you not wash your shears?

This is an EXCELLENT way to explain how and why context matters. 

If you can walk into a drunken bar, casually call someone the name of a team, and not expect to get punched.

So much wrong here. A shocking amount, really.

Every single car does this automatically. It’s how defroster settings work.

Is this true though or just urban car legends that people don’t really have any proof of but just “think” its good practice? What about cars that sit on dealers lots for weeks and weeks without moving? I doubt the dealer is going out to dozens of cars to start and just periodically drive them around?

I don’t know that buttermilk is “gourmet.” It’s a pretty common ingredient in the south!

This is like the WORST script treatment for fucking Inception I ever read....only its real.

Both can be true!

The other piece is how the exploitative upper crust is always shown as an alien force out of New York City or New England sophisticates.

she should have won for Arrival, wasn’t even nominated :(

The fact that you are writing a letter asking if it’s okay, pretty much tells you it isn’t. If your husband hadn’t been willing and able, this would be a non issue. He is the key piece of the puzzle, not the person he acted out with.

Your cutting board must be filthy 

Kitchen shears can be washed, you know.

See yourself out and wash your kitchen shears you ignoramus,

why are your kitchen shears so dirty that you can’t use them on food, as intended?