If movies that passed the Bechdel Test earned millions at the box office, Hollywood would make more of them.

Yes, avert your eyes children, all the imagery of sexy ladies will corrupt your soul and brutalize your self-esteem.

Well-summarised! There are a couple of subset issues that aren't being talked about to consider:

a) The FDA is, indeed, an independent agency, but largely run by ex-pharma executives, who rotate between private industry and the agency at will. It's a volume-sell coup to open the market for Plan B sales to a younger…

I can see how becoming an artist would help an average-looking guy with little income, who wouldn't stand out otherwise, but his art sets him apart. I haven't noticed many outright ugly artists who get a lot of women to sleep with them, but I'm not saying they don't exist. I just see a tipping point when the novelty…

So a guy took a dumb picture with his friends and posted it on his Facebook page?

There are times when it's worth it, especially when the friendship came first and the wanting to nail them came later, or when it's a passing fancy and there are other reasons you want to have the person in your life.

Gosh, normally I don't agree with you, and I'm glad to see that we can come together on common ground. That comment was fucking bullshit, and totally playing into patriarchal notions of masculinity and manhood, and also worthiness. It was total fucking ableism.

Then perhaps you would like to join us in the your/you're nerd rage? That boat has plenty of room!

How is it her fault if she feels pressured? You say that if she refuses, you will dismiss her as not worth the effort/time, not into sex or open about her sexuality. Women aren't stupid. They know what it means when the guy they're seeing asks them to go to the strip club with him.

Bowling! I always have a great time bowling, and it's the Go To first date for a friend of mine.

A nice meeting in the middle would be talking about goals a couple months in and I can understand why she wouldn't want to wait to find out some of these dealbreakers. But I also sympathize with what you're saying as someone who has been on dates with 27 to 30 year old men who clearly want to know right off the bat,…

I think you already have an awesome list. It sounds like you actually try unlike every person I've ever dated who either 1. wants to stay home every single day 2. go to the same restaurant and maybe see a movie.

Sometimes I like to just get ice cream and go for a walk. That might be more first date activity, though.

Picnic. Hookah lounge. Day trip to nearby small city. Go to a bookstore and talk about your favorite books from childhood/college/whenever. Museums with weird exhibits. (Or normal ones.) If you live near a body of water, rent a paddle boat. Geocaching. Challenge other people to a scavenger hunt. (Sometimes largish…

Annoying and not based in science at all! Fewer reps at higher weight will never, ever, ever do anything different to your muscles than numerous reps at low weight. Lean vs bulk is not achieved that way. Drives me BANANAS!

Wait, so you are saying that men are HUMAN? No way!

Goes for both genders, I've learned as a desperate dude.

I'm a black woman. I don't pay to see his work. I am nauseated by his work. But I'm an extremely well-educated, wealthy, independent person, and unfortunately, as we all know, there is a big group of black people who haven't learned or been exposed to enough history and the implications of racist/sexist imagery to…

Spitballing here: I wonder, though, if he's not supported with such fervor solely because he is one of the few black people in Hollywood making shows and movies about the black experience, for black folks. There aren't many other options - perhaps they're latching on to the few pieces of work that actually come the…

"Yeah, women should totally be subject to both sides of this debate"