I was pointing out that some marriages maintain or recover a spark, when you alleged that every marriage lost it. I was meaning to add to what you were saying, not to suggest you left other kinds of marriage out entirely. However, your reply gives a more prickly matter.

Having a baby or more fucks with your hormones, and while you may bond with the kid, you lose attraction/libido for your husband/partner. Plus, everyone knows that the honeymoon phase doesn't last. I also suspect that most people aren't honest about what gets them off sexually, and women in particular - especially…

Then the baby comes and the first six months are excitement, fear, wonder, pride, life schedule adjustment and love about/over/with this future actor/professional sports celebrity they've popped out.

What on earth are you talking about?

This thread has definitely been depressing. Mostly, I'm concerned how little empathy people feel for animals. It genuinely makes me sad to think about it. Especially those who have pets and yet can't seem to get that the same reason why you don't eat your pet should apply to livestock. Blah. I agree…

Is it just me or is he sporting western civilization's version of "what Jesus really looked like™"?

Is it just me or does the first picture remind you of Jesus? That's exactly how he looked on the calendar my Catholic grandmother had in the kitchen.

Jared Leto turns 42 this month.

Sorry, did not initially understand the sarcasm! peace!

You are the kind of vegan/vegetarian the world needs :) .

That and I visited an animal farm. Trauma for life.

I don't know what to say to that...

Yeah. It's fascinating how every single Jezebel article that deals with animal cruelty produces so many vicious, childish and some, let's say, not very smart comments about tasty meat, crying plants, sickly looking vegans, and chickens that would eat us if they only had a chance, and the mandatory "don't tell me what…

Or you're using a lot of words to say that being vegan is hard. It can be. Sounds like you just wanna eat meat though. Own that.

I have a really hard time with PETA as well, but I do have to respect them for one reason: they are the only ones dedicated enough to go undercover to bring the rest of us videos of what really goes on on a factory farm.

Hey, I'm sure you didn't mean it this way (I find Morrissey insufferable too), but making the joke that asexual people just can't find someone to fuck them is one of the most common ways to dismiss asexuality as legitimate.

You can dislike him and his music all you want, doubting his sexual identity is low.

Morrissey isn't forcing his "beliefs" on other people more than the feminists here are forcing theirs on the "outsiders" when they are criticizing sexism. Discrimination is discrimination. Cruelty is cruelty. Injustice is injustice. It doesn't magically become OK because the victim belongs to the wrong gender,…

This. This is an important discussion to have. At this point I subscribe to womanism because I just can't get down with the current state of feminism and how it privileges white voices and marginalizes voices of colour. I hate that many white feminists deny their complicity in upholding racism and somehow think…

This reads a little like all the men on here who insist that they have no advantages in life as a result of being male. If you're white you have certain advantages in life that black women don't have. For instance, if you knocked on someone's door in the middle of the night looking for help you'd be less likely to…