Thank you for reminding me this website’s target audience is half my age. 

I am wearing a Ryan Adams concert t-shirt today. Not to make this about me BUT what the fuck do I do???? It is one of my favorites and I wear it at least once if not twice a week. Embroider over his name? Creative patchwork? Maybe just turn it inside out from now on?  It’s soft fabric and just the right length, I…

Perhaps for the countless caregivers out there feeling lonely, isolated, hopeless and destroyed and not knowing how to put in some self-care while they’re taking care of their loved one. I’m sure he knew there would be backlash, but this is an important discussion to have, especially with our aging population.

So that others being caretakers who feel isolated can see a different way. That they don’t have to adhere to societal pressures about what is “right.”

Nothing wrong with divorcing an abusive spouse. Bring on the breakdown.

From the title on down, this article is pure poetry. 

the Dora Milaje School for Wishing a Motherfucker Would.

I’m sorry for her and her family, but this is extremely rare and could happen anywhere. I’ve traveled in Costa Rica and had nothing but positive experiences with kind people. Bad things can happen to good people anywhere, even (and especially) in their own home. It really bothers me to see these stories…

Aretha Franklin was notorious for being a controlling perfectionist.

Dude, nobody’s disputing the existence of genetics, or that there may be minor genetic variation and drift among genetically distinct populations.

You stop being a chickenshit, stop pretending that anyone will ever care how “nice” or “respectful” to the other side you were or will ever pay you back in kind, and fucking force them to take the bad option if they really want it. We’re talking about a Republican Party that is ripping itself apart because it can’t…

one win, coming up:

I hope Schumer and Pelosi paid attention tonight. This woman is the future.

People who think their feelings are more important that providing healthcare to a person should not work in healthcare in any capacity.

Casually refers to Dykstra as a ‘whore’.
Implies the only POSSIBLE explanation for this story is a ‘career boost’.
Openly wishes for more porn over truth-telling about abuse.
Concludes the only way to be ‘genuine’ is to 100% confirm his narrative.

‘80s jocks were right - nerds are bad fucking news.

The whitest part of this story is that the lawyer bought the ticket on Expedia.

The behavior of the parents is why I laugh when folks try to tell me a public school education is equal regardless of if you live in the city or the suburbs.

Anyone else stuck in this weird spot where you’re generally happy/hopeful about the direction your own life specifically is headed, but the state of the world and the direction its heading constantly drags you down, so you want to just completely ignore and shut out the news, but you feel an obligation to keep…

I did research on workplace sexual harassment in law school. I’m hardly an expert, but a lot of my research showed that a reason some victims do not come forward is that they do not actually want to ruin their harasser’s life and get him fired. For some victims, they want a more restorative approach (counselling,…