Fix it yourself. Take responsibility for your life. Take responsibility for the things you have and want. Your failure to accept responsibility for your own life is directly related to your inability to attract the opposite sex. You are living in a fantasyland. Why would anyone respect or admire (or desire) you if you…

Your logic is outrageous. "They should be considered murderers because incel kills people." On that premise, no one could ever do anything to anyone else that could potentially upset them. Because sometimes being upset leads to depression, which could lead to suicide. And then anyone who ever did something that person…

A long time ago, I was active on the original involuntary celibacy listserv. It was founded and at the time still administered by the lesbian third-wave-feminist women's studies major who coined the terms "involuntary celibacy" and "incel" in the first place. When I was there, it was an inclusive place. There were…

Alternately, one could seek therapy if your social anxiety and/or depression is that crippling, adjust the sense of entitlement (being a virgin and/or socially inexperienced isn't a handicap, dudes) and learn how to talk to women like they're people instead of treating 'em like whores.

You make it sound like these people have some kind of disease.

Celibacy is a choice. Finding and working on a relationship is a choice.

I'm involuntarily not thin. I lack the innate ability to personally take the steps to lower my weight and get thin and hot. Because of this, my life has been harder in many ways, and I've been denied the right to a full and happy life so achievable to thin people. I demand the government buy me a nutritionist, a…

Mr. O'Heir was a guest in a restaurant where I worked, and while I had never seen the show and had no idea who he was, I can vouch for him being a very nice man with a good sense of humor.

Well, rape culture isn't necessarily all about bad intentions, either. It's entirely possible for someone to give genuinely well-meaning advice — but for that advice to be based on a set of assumptions and perspectives that are rooted in a sexist culture that accepts rape as normal, and then the advice becomes a part…

Are you serious? This idea of yours is political correctness gone haywire. What about the racial preferences of other leading women on TV? Do stay up at night worrying about them? What about Rachel on Friends? What about Carrie Bradshaw? It bothers me that this discussion is even happening. Listen to your buddy Nisha…

Love Nisha Chittal's point. It makes me think of the episode of Happy Endings (aw) when Max calls Brad 'gaycist' because he sets Max up with a gay colleague simply because they're both in to guys.

Well, I do see a lot of variety in looks, height, body shape, etc. Before Lena Dunham's character was having sex with D. Glover's character for two episodes, was she called out for this? You know, white characters ARE NEVER, EVER, EVER called out for dating only white people on tv. EVER.

I watch this show faithfully, and do so only out of love for Mindy Kaling. It has some bright spots, but calling it 'uneven' is putting it mildly and it has some representation problems aside from white love interests. In fact, I'm pretty sure the only notable non-white character ever on the show is her.

Does this man have a mother? Or a living grandmother?

How much empathy does it take to look from one to a crowd of 20 (or forty?) "rough and tumble soldiers" and think ... Hmm. Maybe no.

How do you say, "Mayor Buttface" in Japanese?

That's interesting. I would be happy to show a broader image of beauty, not just in advertising but in the media in general. But, to my mind, saying that women are beautiful (or would be if they'd only buy this product) is not exactly empowering. Little girls growing up to see actors and models of colour would be…

Are the big words in the article too long for you to read, or do you just see the word "rapist" and shut your brain down? Lindy did her due journalistic diligence in using the words "accused" and "alleged", so go ahead and stop being that asshole any time you want.

That is seriously messed up. Here are the two stories:

I hate that "not stealing" is somehow a good deed. People, returning someone's shit instead of keeping it for yourself isn't noble - it's just not stealing. It's one thing if you find a $20 on the ground and keep it, but if someone's wallet or phone with identifying information is on it is found it is not amazing…

I keep seeing these articles and thinking "Wait, didn't I read this five years ago?" Way to keep journalism alive, TIME. At least now we have the memes.

7th grade: Lewinsky scandal, 9th grade: Bush v Gore, 10th grade: 9/11, 11th grade: Invaded Iraq, 12th: Abu Ghrraib, find out there were no WMDs, Freshman yr: Bush elected Sophmore yr: Katrina, Junior Yr: Blackwater Rape Conspiracies come to light Senior Year: The economy crashes turning job offers into apologies.....…