I also always kind of rolled my eyes at this. Not because it was queer-coding (I’m all for representation) but because it didn’t come from a place of genuine identification but rather, “Hehe, them two unconventional girls MUST be lesbian!”

No man turns on a woman like a woman. Not even close. Trump couldn’t dream of doing to women what you do to each other.

Listen, “if you don’t want to get punched in the balls, don’t touch women when they don’t want you to” is a good rule of thumb for life. As someone who has both acted like an asshole and been punched in the balls for it, I’ll give this a pass. It sure as hell taught me a lesson.

My exact thought. It was a good piece, but that kept ringing in my ear. Why/how in the world are female friendships more confusing than a male “friend” who continues to sexually assault you or the mutual friend who tells you what you did wasn’t right?

I couldnt read anything in the post because I could not get by:

The director of “Rogue One,” Gareth Edwards, has stepped into a mythopoetic stew so half-baked and overcooked, a morass of pre-instantly overanalyzed implications of such shuddering impact to the series’ fundamentalists, that he lumbers through, seemingly stunned or constrained or cautious to the vanishing point of…

My fake and more correct title for this movie is The Gahdian.

He was def the highlight of her sex life for me.

Poor Luke.

Yeah definitely. But seriously—THAT’S what it took? A man once told me I kissed like a 23 year old and I wanted to die and melt into the ground. I can recognize it now as a gross power move and boy did it work. Harrison Ford, you are a slime meat ball.

She was 19.

Everyone else seems to think this is a great thing, so am I the only one skeeved out by the fact that a much older 34 year old ~married~ man took advantage of a drunk/high teenage girl? Like if someone said Chloe Grace Moretz and Seth Rogan smoked weed together and had sex while filming Neighbors 2, that would not be…

I’m sure you’re not alone in Harrison lust. But it’s not universal. I do not share this sentiment. Like, not at all.

Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo she was a 19 year old drug addict and he was 34 and married. No wonder Carrie Fisher always finds ways to emphasize that Harrison Ford is a douche biscuit.

I’ll offer this ray of hope. Probably won’t get out of the greys, but it’s worth saying.

That we’re still immeasurably more racist and more sexist than anyone might have thought possible? Absolutely.

I think it is POGET and pronounced poe-jay

Nah.

The answer is depressingly a lot, especially as the things that drive certain people into fame (deep sense of self-importance, unrelenting drive to get what you want, slight sociopathy) often tend to correlate with the kind of people who end up sexually assaulting someone.

I feel like you don’t get that this is real. It’s not rare or unexpected in many schools. Kids are dumb (regardless of socio-economic background). I have seen what happened here more times than I have fingers...