A long, long time avo my baby died.in utero. Your excellent piece of writing made me cry, yet feel at peace with letting the hospital cremate her. After 32 years, I finally know what happened to her and I am at peace with it. Thank you for thus.

at least she isn't sailing on the Mayer-craft carrier. I hear that's a rite of passage in Hollywood.

I personally like the sound of "LawMart" better!

The "training" to not hit people needs to be finished loooong before the guys are in the NFL. The league is bungling its response to these cases, but it's not responsible for what grown adults do in their own home.

I got this on Tinder the other night...

I don't mean to blame you for not understanding that OKC isn't Tindr, but. . . OKC isn't Tindr.

IDK if you guys are sick of me sharing posts from my blog in any online dating thread, but I feel like we always have splendid discussions every time, so. . . here we go.

Best one I've had recently was "Aw, you scared?" when I didn't respond to his "Hey baby wassup."

WHY ALL THE FEET???

You've expressed how I feel perfectly. I love my husband, I would love our kids. But I love my life as is, we don't have any family members that would be able to help and I'm just not parent material. Normally I'm 100% certain in this, but I just found out two of his cousins are having babies and it makes me a little…

I'd rather take the off-change that I'll regret not having them down the road ...than regret ever having them and be in an irreparable situation.

The problem is, by saying you only feel sympathy for their children and not for these women stuck doing something they regretted, you're ensuring that women will continue to feel ashamed for having these feelings and they won't speak about this frankly to people close to them or anyone else, and will keep these…

Well, the other thing no one says is that just because you regret not having children doesn't mean you should have had children. I am ambivalent about having children and people who (for some reason) want me to have them always threaten me with "regret." I'm always asked, "What if you regret not having them?" The…

These are really great conversations to have, definitely, but as a side note, can we all just get along? I have a 15 month old son and he is obviously the biggest thing in my life right now. I go out of my way to temper the amount I talk about him at work or on social media or to my childless friends. I would…

Yes, this is the big takeaway. =/ As a Jew with baby hairs, baby hairs have had a long history of complex and artful styling in the black community. That's why. Why do you think they're euphemizing black with "urban?" It's okay. We don't have to be defensive about our baby hairs. It's not about ownership. But it…

This looks exactly like an ex of mine. If he played Chunk and didn't tell me, I will be SO PISSED.

I'm dying here

#NOTALLBRIANS

I'm having a great idea for a TV show right now. Basically, women who receive threatening/abusive messages from a dude on dating sites submit the guy's profile to the show, who then lure the guy into a date with a fake profile. When the guy shows up for the date, rather than the way-out-of-his-league woman he was…

The first amendment protects your right to say whatever you want. It does not protect you from the consequences of spewing ignorant bullshit and getting called out on it.