Fuuuuuck. I wrote a long thoughtful response, clicked "publish" and got a 404. Dammit.

I wonder sometimes if attention-seeking, and our (I use the term "our" loosely here) revulsion to it is more about power.

I haven't watched the clip - but the post (along with title) strikes me as "omg watch this gay couple do somethigay super gay! How adorable!" And the pseudo-psychology? Condescending.

Yep.