Apr 20

At this very moment, someone reading these words is absolutely certain that they are excluded from the group most Black people consider to be racist. Read more

Mar 26

I like the tweet about Ben Shapiro “slamming” the article as if that doesn’t just confirm it’s truth.

Feb 12

The thing about apologies from past abusers is that they are usually for the abuser. The abuser went to therapy and realized they did something wrong, the abuser feels bad and reaches out to the person they victimized. What in that scenario is about the victim? What if the victim doesn’t desire an apology and contact Read more

Feb 2

My new doctor got snippy when I advocated for myself just last week. I wrote a few excoriating complaint emails about her and found a new doctor practice in a whole new system. This story, and so many others, just underscores the fact that since we can’t just show up, request assistance and get it, we’ve gotta appoint Read more

Jan 22

They do have a health care plan. It’s called “Don’t get sick or hurt because if you do it’s your own fault.” Read more

Jan 22

Also, stop donating your not so hard earned money to people who give (is there a number less than zero) let’s just go with fucks about you.

Dec 11

Why is it confusing that different people will have different sleep preferences? 

Dec 11

What is confusing about it? I prefer sleeping alone but I don’t find it confusing if other people prefer sleeping with a partner. Different people like different things.

Dec 10

My parents solved this one ages ago. Two full sized beds sitting parallel and separated by a nightstand in the master bedroom. One is extremely firm or near concrete as my mother puts it for my stepfather. The other is softer with lots of extra pillows for my mother.

It’s been working for them for... 30+ years.

Dec 3

I thought I was the only one thinking “That’s a big coat?!?!”

Nov 13

Someone has to start this one today, I suppose. I love Keanu and do not like to know that he, like apparently every other person with more money than sense, as well as a significant number of the rest of us, thinks that the rules only apply to those other people. Read more

Nov 3

Well I’m sure glad that he clarified his seemingly racist statement was just a regular ol’ sexist pejorative with unintentional racist overtones.