The, if you're ace, you still have to deal with people who 'want to date' you, who then get angry when you show zero interest in pursuing a relationship with them. I'm aromantic as well as asexual, and I've unwittingly wrecked a lot of relationships that I've had with males simply because I just wanted to 'hang out'…

It's a bit bizarre that you even brought up abortion since that wasn't even the issue at hand.