Hello! I saw your comment and wanted to respond just to send you hugs. I don't know what your budget is like, but Nordstroms offers a free personal shopper. They can guide you and make suggestions. Also, since they're a dept store, there's a good range of sizes. Don't be intimidated! I used to work there and a lot of…

I had a relationship much like this. I won't tell you to break up, but it doesn't get better.

This is kind of out of nowhere, so I apologize if I overstep my bounds. I've read a lot of your posts on here, and I wanted to say you sound like a fucking awesome guy. You're smart, articulate and not emotionally bankrupt. I get your struggles, I've also been diagnosed with bipolar two. I have had a crazy and sad…

Hugs right back! Thank you!

Omg this is me exactly.

I'm in my early thirties. For me it was at 30. At 29 I was like omg I'm gonna be thirty and kept dreading it, and then it passed and guess what it wasn't the end of the world. I know it's trite, but I'm so much more content now versus in my twenties. I'm not saying I don't still have my moments, but you just stop…

Thank you! I was upset I lost my friends but in the long run I'm not, because who wants to be friends with people like that? That girl is married to the dude now. I don't have any residual affects of that night mental health wise. I just told the story to illustrate how common these kind of things are, and also how…

Move on form this guy. He doesn't respect you and you deserve better than that. I don't know if you have low self esteem, and you feel like this is the kind of treatment you deserve. Also, it might help to talk to a therapist. It seems like there's some deeper issues there. I don't mean to sound harsh. Good luck.

Your story sounds much like my story. I grew up in an extremely strict and religious household. I couldn't even talk to boys on the phone. Needless to say, I went wild when I went away to college. To make matters worse I had horrible self esteem because my parents were abusive. I wanted guys to like me. So even when I…

WHAT THE FUUUUUCK

Sacramento?

This made me tear up. Not because I think you're an asshole, I believe you that this is how you feel. This reason it caused me to choke up, is that I know my bf feels the same way. Agreed, that you shouldn't comment on bodies, even if you feel like it is positive. My bf isn't doing it to be patronizing, it is that he…

Thank you for this comment. This is also my story. I also have OCD, depression and anxiety. I'm a bit frightened to google anything related to an ED, because I'm sure there's shit I don't want to see. May I ask you what sites have been helpful? Again, thank you for your comment, it feels comforting that someone could…

Here, fucking here. I'm super short, so it doesn't take much to make me gain weight. I actually had an ED, and I stopped having my period for a year and a half. My body constantly ached, I went to specialist, after specialist, and not ONE said it was because I was too thin, because I didn't look it, and my BMI, was…

I started basing my choices of the photos they would choose. Not in a shallow way, nut no shirtless pics, gym pics or standing in front of their car pics.

Just the tone of yor comment, makes me think deep down, you know what to do, but scared of being alone, or genuinely do enjoy when you're actually spending time together. Get out, though. Shit never gets better, and a lot of your differences, seem like they can be huge issues, if you were to cohabit.

I also have chronic depression. It's hard, and people are judgmental about it and tell you to just get over it. I wish I could say something that could help. Wen I was depressed, I just felt like I was a burden to everyone and apathetic towards everything and everyone. It wasn't even that I was sad, it was a lack of…

Said no, not in. Damn autocorrect.

In high school this guy asked me out and I said in. He then started rumors we had sex snd him and his friends would call me slut walking down the hall at school. I decided to seek revenge. I started emailing him and talking to him on the phone and I honestly think e developed strong feelings for me. Finally, I ran out…

Lol are you me?