Wait, how can you tell other people their opinions are wrong because they can't be sure what the boy was feeling, but in the same breath state that the boy was most likely feeling okay by this? You have no idea either! Questionable math means you don't know jack.

must be fun to be psychic.

I'm sorry to hear about your horrible experiences. I hope that you can heal with thoughtful partners and can do your best to ignore the behavior of the unrepentant assholes who are masquerading as your buddies. I have struggled with these issues being someone who was sexually abused as a child and who was...I dunno,…

a) My son is gay and would not be interested in a lapdance from any woman. b) I can't imagine that the majority of straight kids would be interested in a lap dance from a woman their mom's age. c) Your sample size consists of 'several' men, all of whom are adults and friends of yours. You can't seriously think that…

I've never posted in the discussions here before, but I finally decided to begin with a reply to this.

You "asked several" guys, huh? I'm sorry, that is not an adequate sample size, or maybe you're not familiar with research methods. You're perpetuating the myth that all boys and all men want sex, even if there is a significant power differential and they are not psychologically ready for such an experience. This kid…

Here are a couple of things that you might be surprised to hear:

Every guy you (a woman) asked SAID they would love it?

Every guy I asked (and I asked several) said they would love it.

Right?

From the linked article:

Those women could make a concerted effort to look bad, and each would fail. In fact, these pictures are Exhibit A of said effort.

Cultural entrapment. The sooner you shed it, the freer you'll be.

Why shouldn't guys get a chance to be a Pretty Princess if they want to?

I feel Jezebel should do some investigative reporting in this arena, before Buzzfeed gets to it.

I'd go as far to say that my husband would choose birkenstocked over heeled. He's turned on by practicality.

Bonus: you won't need birth control!

Actually, men are not allowed into Takarazuka at all, therefore all roles (male parts included) are portrayed by women.

Some of the roots go back to traditional Japanese theater, specifically Kabuki I think, where women were not allowed to appear on stage. Therefore, all female roles were played by men, and certain men specialize in female roles. They are known as Onnagata. I'm sure there are other factors, but that is quite an old and…

This is some wonderfully casual misogyny, right here.