It’s only an issue if you make it an issue.

You get what a code of conduct is, right? It’s the same reason a minister is frowned upon when he’s found hooking up with 19-year-olds on Craigslist.

“.....fucking hated that bitch”

But do you actually evaluate their genitals in brutal detail moments after engaging in a professional interaction, though? And if you do, maybe you should stop.

Like, this happened while he was STILL ON THE PHONE from replying to a professional request. It wasn’t later over beers.

“That’s how they’re grown over there”

It’s misogynistic because the one guy immediately objectifies her in asking if she’s hot, making all other information about her irrelevant, and then the conversation just continues in that vein. It’s also emblematic of the binary mindset of the police in general.

So, here’s the thing. Aside from the fact that this conversation is wildly inappropriate for the workplace, these are people supposedly responsible for following evidence to its logical conclusion, for complex analytical situations, in addition to tactical street/traffic/ whatever stuff. The guy says, “my wife hated…

It wasn’t “private time,” though. It was “being paid by the public” time.

Yes, yes, we get it. You don’t think it’s a problem and you firmly believe Six Flags is a place with more expectations of propriety than a law enforcement precinct. You’re very wise and very cool. NBD, exaggerated shrug.

Even if they were in a private setting, it’s no excuse for being a horrible human being. They talked about her like she was an eggplant or something. “It’s how they’re grown over there.” Take a scrub brush to your brains, sir.

You probably should not be discussing what their dicks look like while you’re at work, because it’s not appropriate! Sexual harassment is a thing, whether you think it is or not.

It’s misogynistic based on the blatant fact that they are sexualizing her and making assumptions about her based solely on appearances.

He also doesn’t seem to entirely grasp how Fish and Chips work.

The most embarrassing thing is that this guy has no fucking clue how bra sizes work. The nasty rest, not surprised, I could have guessed.

You do realize that it isn’t just because they’re, like, super duper scared that women have a hard time negotiating these kinds of things, yes? If that male introvert DOES speak up, he won’t have to do so as carefully or face the same repercussions his female co-worker might.

I have always told my husband DO NOT ASK me if you can go out with your friends. He is a grown ass man, he can make his own decisions. Check with me to make sure we don’t already have plans, sure, but I’m not his mommy. He doesn’t need to ask.

Noted?

And, to be fair, I need much better training when guests are over.

Well, good! I’ve worked hard on this person-repellent poker face.

Ah, this is pretty interesting. I’m definitely pretty reserved in real life, and not terribly inclined to spread my thoughts and feelings all over the place for people to see. I don’t like to feel exposed that way. Honestly, I don’t think I have a deep need to be really “known” (not in the biblical sense, y’all!).